Ok look let me tell you what is going on with my family. My aunt and Uncle are going through a rough divorce right now b/c of another women. They have been married for almost 15 year and have 2 kids. The first of their 2 kids is 14 and he think that him and his other family members are the cause of this but their not and you know it. Their second child is 7 and she is taking this completely to heart as “Daddy doesn’t love me” , but at this point she is not talking to anyone except me. Now i know that this situation is different b/c your man’s first baby is not born yet, but there are some simularities. My uncle is supposed to get married at the end of the month to this bitch that has torn the family apart and caused my grandparents soo much stress that they have both been in the hospital within the past month. Now my mom and I feel as thoough the only reason he is messin round with this other woman is b/c he wanted some one younger and the only reason she wants him is for his money, but again that has nothing to do with you. Iam not saying that you are the bitch that will tear his family apart, but please analyze the situation. Have you ever thought about the fact that since this man is a soon to be father and maybe his wife is not capable of pleasuring him. So maybe he is using you for his sexual pleasure. I don’t know just be careful b/c things like this one get nasty and they always get worse before they get better. Be careful!!!