Well I am posting this basically to say that I want to find out more about the funny and potentially embarrassing situation of telling their parents about losing their virginity and I would like to know if you told them or how you did it. However I would like to be a fly on the wall if they were saying it to their parents if they were very religious or something like that. And I appreciate that it may be different if people are married and things like this and I suppose alot of people might not tell their parents. By the way I believe there is some kind of disease people get or urinary tract infection through actually having sex alot after the first time having sex also. Also whether there is any requirement for a woman to pee after sex and if they have to pee after every time they have sex even if they are tired or if they do not even have to pee if they have to do it after having sex also. And I would like to find out more about people telling their parents or maybe not telling their parents when they lost their virginity and things about this.
I told everybody!
Maybe you mean honeymoon cystitis.
I don’t know if it is required. IME it does tend to work out that way.
I just let them assume.
Regards,
Shodan
Parents? Hell no. But I was on the phone to my best friend before the guy had even driven away.
How the hell would I know? That’s their business.
It was the night before my grandmother’s funeral. Not a chance I’d tell them.
Nope, I never told them about it, though I imagine that they figured it out not too long after it happened. (I was 18 at that point, FWIW.)
OTOH, the only time that I ever had a conversation with either of my parents about sex, at all, was when my wife and I were trying to conceive, and not having any success, and I had a talk with my mom about it. That was when I was in my early 30s, so, as far as my parents knew, I could theoretically have been a virgin up until that point.
Hell, since my wife and I never did have a baby, my parents could have reasoned that we weren’t successful when we were “trying” because we weren’t actually succeeding in having sex, and that I might well still be a virgin to this day. Hmmmm…
No, absolutely not. And I’m close with my folks and would tell them *almost *anything.
To the OP: can we PLEASE at least PRETEND to have some personal boundaries? Let’s give people the respect that is their due, and not just share everything with them. To anyone reading this, ask yourself (like I have to) “Do people really want to know about this, or is this just my need to manufacture intimacy in my relationships?”
I have a friend who shares/sneakbrags about the frequency and details of sex with his girlfriend. After he leaves (he’s too fragile to confront), we all give a collective “Eeeeeew…”
I feel strongly about this because it’s a character flaw of mine, and my family. But one of us is trying to get over it…
Nope, not a word.
But I guess my mum figured out I wasn’t a virgin anymore when she quietly came home one afternoon (didn’t hear her car, the bloody dog didn’t bark!!) and found my boyfriend’s head firmly between my thighs. THAT was a tad embarrassing and we never spoke of it again.
Nope. The subject wasn’t discussed in the house.
I learned about sex from drawings in the school bathrooms.
Heck nope.
Mine was the night before my Calculus final, which I aced.
Till the day they died, both of my parents thought I was still a virgin. We NEVER talked about sex.
Nope. And my Kids better not tell me about theirs.
I never did, and I’m not sure when my parents just assumed, but I was 16 when Mom asked if I needed her to buy some condoms for me one Friday evening as I was heading out.
I never told them,…but. Standard small town cliche. Two teenagers parked down by the river when Barney Fife shines a 19 cell Mag-Lite through the window and tells us to move along. Dad was on the reserve force - he knew.
I handed the sheet from my wedding night to my mother-in-law the next morning with a smirk on my face. I think my parents were probably still around at the time, but I honestly didn’t give a damn what they thought.
Parents aren’t aliens from another planet Dunmurry. They’ve usually got a pretty good idea of what’s going on with their offspring’s sexual development, having been in the same position(s) themselves at some point.
Frankie Boyle offers some wise words here:
Of course I didn’t tell them. My sex life has never been my parents’ business.
No. Never talked to them.
I remember playing golf one Friday evening with buddy who lived off the 2nd tee box. His 16 yr old daughter came out to the tee, and told him she was going on a date. Dad told her to be careful and not pregnant.
Noooooooooo!
Saying that, I was pretty sure I knew when it happened for Son-of-a-wrek. And I insisted his Dad have a talk with him about safe sex, condoms, and being a gentleman. Seems to have worked out for him.