What fresh new vapid hell is this?
The admin assistant that sits within direct line of sight and earshot keeps uttering this annoying little phrase throughout the day to various people that come by her workstation. I don’t know why. I don’t know in what context she feels the need to appreciate these random people. But she says it in this overly sweet and drawn out tone that makes my hair bristle.
God I hate people.
Sounds like somebody is feeling left out… It’s ok, QuickSilver, I appreciate you.
Oh, look… yet another person to hate. :mad:
I hear it pretty often here in Tennessee, but it usually comes out as, " 'preciate ya."
Actually, sounds like someone has a case of the Mondays.
Nope. She says it every day and every day I hate her for it.
Does she say it the way most people do, to mean thank you?
Or is she just randomly giving people positive strokes and warm fuzzies?
In any case, you’re far too grumpy.
I’m with QuickSilver on this one. We have a woman in the office who does something similar. Very often, too often in my opinion, she pops into my office and says, “You know, I really appreciate everything you do for me!” in this chirpy, syrupy voice. It just feels strained and as if she’s trying to draw attention to herself by showing me how “aware” she is.
If you really want to show some appreciation, be more considerate of me and my time. Don’t make your lack of planning into a crisis that I have to fix (time and time again) and then tell me how much you appreciate me.
I don’t hate her for it, but I don’t like it much either. Grr. :dubious:
I’m not sure. Would either of the two scenarios you presented make it okay? I don’t think so.
You say ‘grumpy’ like it’s a bad thing.
…and yeah, when I say I hate her, it’s hyperbole.
Hoe come everyone goes striaght to “hyperbole”? Nobody ever tries “bole” first to see if it’s enough. Save a tree, people!
Maybe she’s just trying to provide people with some needed validation.
Is it wrong that my first response to this is, “Fuck off.”?
So, everyone is “appreciating” everyone in offices now, eh? I can tell already that I’m not going to enjoy that.
Something I’ve run into lately that is actually kind of amusing is people telling each other (facetiously) how much they love them at work - “Can you get that order for me?”
“Love you!”
I think you misunderstood.
Her name is Preechi.
and she hates you too.
you can get your ass kicked saying something like that.
You know, back in the day, people got kinda pissed off because everybody was saying “Have a nice day!” Then somebody pointed out that most of them seemed to mean it, and the ire kinda died down.
Thanks, but I’ve made other plans.
I am a mental health counselor and I have a client who says “I appreciate you” many many many times in a conversation.
When she’s psychotic and or high…it is mostly sarcastic.
But there are times when I know that she really means it.
Yes, I have a tendency to tell people I appreciate that I appreciate them. Not every day, but enough that they won’t forget it.
Jeez-Louise, since when is expressing gratitude a bad thing? I don’t understand misanthropes.
People usually tell me they appreciate me right after they’ve made me do extra work. Often it’s extra work I wouldn’t have had to do if they’d done what they were supposed to do in the first place.
I appreciate the meaning of “I appreciate you” for what it is. It neither makes me feel warm nor fuzzy.
A sales rep that calls me almost daily often ends his calls with “well, we appreciate you”. Maybe he’s including other random people in the company? I always knew he meant it though.
I was certain he appreciated me the first time I got a personal check from him in the mail, and even more so when I got the second one, and the next.
Take the praise, be it false or not. There are far many, and more obvious, things to upset you when you look around.
