I’m just here to clarify what I was trying to say.
Telling people that their getting upset by what you are saying is a function of their own stupidity or weakness is what I was referring to as “gaslighting” not implying that anything Novelty_Bobble said was lying.
Obviously the way I said it certainly made it look like I was saying something else. For which I am responsible and for which I apologize.
Is it okay if I apologize in the thread (without any clarification)? I don’t think that would be discussing the moderation itself. But I’m already on thin ice here. Don’t want to make it worse.