I know there are opinions out there to the effect that native speakers can’t make errors, and words mean whatever we want them go mean. I’m aware of them.
I still want to talk about whether we are getting full value out of the word “gaslight” (v.t.)
I read, just now, on another website, the reading of which was an excuse not to be doing what I was supposed to be doing, and had no other value, a woman complaining about how much her boyfriend gaslights her.
And I thought, "Isn’t it axiomatic to the idea of “gaslighting” as something special relative to just playing mind games or trying to drive someone batty, that the object of it does not know it is happening?
It was in the movie. The gaslights were fundamental to the plot, and a trick on the audience as well, because someone would usually come into the room right after they had dimmed or brightened, so we were never sure whether we were seeing Paula’s perspective, or an omniscient one.
And, then, it turns out that the lights, which are the one thing Gregory/Sergius isn’t doing on purpose, become the thing that trips him up.
That second part is just as fundamental to the reason the film is called “Gaslight,” yet not part of what people call “gaslighting” at all, so I guess we’re already getting away from the plot of the film-- but then why even bother to name the phenomenon after the film?
At any rate, * IS * not knowing that it is happening part of what gaslighting is, or does the term have no meaningful connection to the movie, it just sounds better than “lying,” “cheating,” or “fooling”?