I Don't Want Long, Feminine Eyelashes.

I am facing a really weird dilemma here to be sure. But first some background.

About 10 years ago, my eye doctor put me on Bimatoprost, for glaucoma.

My eye pressure was always borderline high, just like my mother’s. And the eye doctors had always been monitoring it.

Actually, I did a little research. And Bimatoprost is not usually the first medicine of choice, for glaucoma. I suspect my eye doctor put me on it, because it is least irritating. (I have a chronic eyelid infection, and it causes constant irritation.) But that is all for another discussion.

Anyways, so far the medicine seems to be working, although last visit, the eye pressure did spike a little. But that is not what concerns me.

Bimatoprost has left me with long, feminine eyelashes! And no, that is not what gay men like me want. Most gay men are repelled by the idea (although I certainly support the rights of people who are into that kind of thing:)).

I asked the receptionist, at one of my doctors, what women do when they have eyelashes that are too long. She laughed, and said, women usually want eyelashes like that. So they have no procedure, as such, for controlling their length.

What can I do? Yes, I know, I could just take some scissors to them. But I don’t like the idea of sharp implements, so close to my eyes. My barber does trim your eyebrows, and for a good price. But I don’t know if he would do that. And as I said, I would be afraid to even ask, for the reasons I just gave.

A simple, safe way of dealing with the problem: What do the rest of you have to say? I would be interested to know if there is something I haven’t considered yet.

BTW, stopping the Bimatoprost, and taking another med, is not an option, as I said. On the upside though, if you’re woman, and you want to take the drug for cosmetic purposes (which it is sold for too), I say go for it. I can at least attest to the fact it works for that purpose;).

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Straight woman here. I have no idea what gay men want, but long eyelash are attractive on everyone. They work like natural eyeliner and make your eyes stand out.

If you really want a trim, I would ask your hair stylist rather than do it yourself. It would be a headache trying to get them even.

(Electric) hair clippers, with really short comb.

Or whoever cuts your hair.

You’d have to screw up big time to poke something that wide in your eve.

Apparently a lot of Indian men have feminine eyelashes… nobody tell them, please!

Speak to your barber, or better yet, go to a hairdresser’s that has a makeup specialist. They may label themselves “stylists” or have ads about wedding makeup.

Have you tried curling them, with one of those two-dollar gizmos sold at every drugstore? That might make them look very different and more acceptable to you.

Also, if they are too blond for your taste, it is easy to have them dyed by a beautician.

But in general, long eyelashes look good on men AND women, gay or straight. Maybe google some pictures of long lashed gentlemen and see if that changes your outlook.

Both curling them and dying them black will make them more visible.

I’ve been told by my optomitrist that I am on the road to glaucoma. Nice to know at least I’ll have better eyelashes:-/

If thy eyelashes offend thee…

Having long eyelashes and unique eye color has always worked for me. Of course the rest of the face ruins it.

I’m also cursed with long eyelashes (straight guy, FWIW). The dang things get crossed up, I can see droopy ones out of the corner of my eye and it hurts like heck to pluck them out. I’ve tried trimming them off, but eyelash “stubble” also feels weird. I remember mom having a little clamp-like curling device, sometimes I think that might help at least getting them pointing up away from my eyes.

Got 'em, hate 'em. Looks be damned, I got passed over in that department, anyway. And now that the only hair I seem to be able to grow is nose hair and ear hair, my eyebrows are starting to go to seed. So I can’t go bowling with you guys, gotta stay home and curl my lashes and pluck my eyebrows.

Straight guy here, too. Long eyelashes suck. Every now and then, they seem to go on a shedding spree and I have to spend time in front of a 5X mirror fishing them out of my eye.

That is an eyelash curler, and they are two bucks at any drugstore. Here’s a tutorial on YouTube. Try it and see if that gets your lashes out of your line of vision. If you like the effect, use clear mascara or brow mascara to keep them that way.

Nava, dark eyelashes are more visible then blond ones, sure, but I suspect dark eyelashes are more popular.

Tutorial on cutting eyelashes.

In Pink Floyd’s documentary The Wall, there is a scene involving facial manscapping.

Just sayin.

I am on similar drops for glaucoma (Xalatan) and was also given the warning about long eyelashes. I really don’t see it happening to me.

My glaucoma specialist also warned that the drops may also permanently change the color of my eyes, also hasn’t happened.

I admit to being a little disappointed.
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How long are they, anyway?

Barely noticeable at one end of the spectrum, and parents covering their kid’s eyes when you walk down the street to spare them nightmares at the other end.

I’m not very observant, but other than extreme glue-on hooker lashes, I don’t think I’ve ever noticed someone’s lashes.

What the ever loving fuck?

My eyelashes are naturally long. Damn things keep streaking up my glasses.

Dude. Nightmare fuel. Abstain.

Must be a common noted side effect for glaucoma drops. I’m on TravatanZ and got the same speech. Nothing really different 4 years later.

Remember Andy Rooney’s eyebrows? Somehow, they’ve relocated to my forehead.