I’d rather not talk about it. I wouldn’t know where to start. It’s super-complicated girl-stuff. But I’d appreciate it if you guys said something to cheer me up.
Thanks.
It’s better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all. Chin up! There are plenty more fish in the sea.
You’ll feel better tomorrow.
In the last year, I’ve been on a dozen first dates, but never a second date (not by my own choice).
It could be worse.
How’s that?
Doesn’t help? Didn’t think so. Nothing ever does, does it?
If she doesn’t want to go out with you, then she’s not right for you. If she strung you along for a while and then cruelly told you to get lost, she’s not right for you. If she was manipulative or hurtful or dishonest to you, then she’s not right for you.
Whatever happened, it’s her loss. Ultimately, too, it’s your gain. It means that she’s ruled herself out, which leaves you free to find someone better. And it’s best that she revealed herself to be not right for you now, rather than years from now. Less opportunity for her, and more time for you.
There are lots of girls better than this one. And you know that this one–say it with me, now–is not right for you.
So she’s not worth being so upset over. I know you feel lousy, but you’ll feel better if you go do something fun, something you really like for its own sake. Or, better yet, go do something you always wanted to do but somehow never got around to doing.
Go hang out with your friends. Go talk to some other cute girl who you’ve seen at the bookstore a time or two. You’ll be OK.
Guys who lean up against walls or windows with a hurt and unbearably far away look in their eyes are just soooo sexy.
Er…I was under the impression that fetus was a girl suffering from some weird girlie shit like rotten painful menses or pre-menstrual psychosis or summat.
I did wonder why she needed some guys to cheer her up though: most mad women call for the sisterhood to calm and console during those trying times. 
Geez, I am so bloody thick sometimes. :smack:
OK…if you’ve got woman troubles (non-uterine) then you need to hoik down to your nearest bar and claim the shoulder of the most pathetic looking guy in the joint…he will listen to you patiently, then tell you HIS story, at the end of which you will see that you are Marvel Man compared to him, and your self-confidence and ego will be boosted accordingly.
Works a treat I’ve heard. 
… wasn’t the original quote “it’s better to have quested and died than never to have quested at all”?
(you play WoW, fetus? If you don’t… don’t start until you’ve finished college and moved over here. And if you do, don’t bother buying an EU account to practice your Spanish, everybody except me seems to use SMSpanish even in the RPG realms)
Thanks for all the kind words.
Unfortunately, in my country I can’t get in to a bar unless I shell out hundreds of bucks on a fake ID, and I have enough trouble paying rent and buying food.
You play WoW? I don’t, but my roommate does. I’m unproductive enough as it is, I couldn’t possibly make it through this semester with a WoW account. (What’s SMSpanish?)
It’s Spanish that really, really hurts, but you like it
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Cite? Without some research to support this I’ll have to drag in my own anecdotal evidence that says whoever put this drivel together (Yeah, I know, Tennyson) has either never loved or lost.
Sorry, fetus. But take heart–this is as bad as it gets!
Stay away from super-complicated girls.
Hey! I’m heartbroken too!
And apparently, that makes me Uber-Attractive, because I have 4 (FOUR!!) different boys taking me on dates in the next couple of weeks.
So there you go - if I’m anything to go on, women will start falling in your lap any minute now!
Pssst! You’re a heartbroken chick–guys dig that. Girls tend to be less “predatory” in that way toward heartbroken guys. Unfortunatly for the guys. Who could use a little…um…predation.
Personal experience, mate. Nary so much as a kiss on my own account; but I’ve seen friends love, lose, and recover.
Why?
Sorry for the hijack Fetus, but I’m intrigued.
In the immortal words of 50 Cent:
Sorry to hear you are feeling low Fetus. Sending supporthing thoughts your way. 
You could be the Republican party and you’re about to lose a whole bunch of seats in Congress. There are thousands of people in the US right now running around shitting their pants while trying to stamp out fires they’ve no chance of stamping out and a whole bunch of apartments & condos in the Washington DC area are about to be reoccupied.