I have a date this Saturday!

Miscellaneous and Personal Stuff I Must Share
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Since I’m on Social Security Disability, and have a hard time driving, It hasn’t been easy to find a female… which I understand from a female’s point of view. But I met this one girl on OkCupid that’s amazing and looks past all my “faults”, (for now). It’s not really being called a “date”, but I figure since it’s just her and I, and I’m paying… I can call it a date.

Some of you know how terrible I am with women from some of the threads that I have started. But I think I’m learning, (thanks to the Straight Dopers who got pissed off at me in some of those threads – at least I can admit when I’m wrong).

The first time I talked to her on the phone, I admit, I was WAY too excited to be talking to someone like her. But the next time we talked on the phone, I played it cool. She wants me to call her after work, which is great because she’s younger, (24 years old, and I’m 32 years old), and from my experience, women that age would rather text than talk on the tele.

We have so much in common. She’s been through some tough times too, so she’s sympathetic to my situation. She LOVES the movie The Truman Show, and so do I! She’s an atheist! She has the same political beliefs as me.

I’m a little worried that I’m shorter than her, and I’m losing hair, (which you can’t see on my OkCupid profile pics). But if it turns out we can only be friends… I’m not only ready for that, I’m still excited! And who knows, maybe I just want to be friends too. We would have to hang out more.

I just feel so happy that a female’s giving me the time-of-day!

Any comments or advice?

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Good attitude. Have a good time and a nice weekend!

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Good luck with your date. Where are you going? Are you going to drive?

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Thanks Dung! :slight_smile:

Thanks too! We are going to meet at a coffee place that I can get to driving, then if the weather’s nice, she’s driving me to a park where we can walk around. :slight_smile:

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Good luck! :slight_smile:

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A female what? Sloth? :slight_smile:

Sorry, pet peeve. I prefer the term “woman.”

Have fun!

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Thanks Sunspace!

Thanks araminty! What about “gal”?

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No. Just say woman. Or “chick.” :smiley:

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:slight_smile:

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I have never understood this. Why do people like to text instead of talk? :confused:

Think about it. It’s easier and much more efficient to actually have a conversation by talking.

This doesn’t have anything to do with the OP by the way. It’s just an unanswered question I have.

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There are advantages to texting… you get to think about what you want to say, reply at any time. But being a dyslexic fool, I HATE it. I would much rather talk on the phone.

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You can think about what you want to say on the phone, too.

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There are no “awkward silences” when you’re texting.

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Keep it light. Don’t go down any deep dark rabbit holes of her past (or future life plans).
I wish someone else knew that last night. :dubious:

Also, don’t be too excited about it.

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Thanks Spiderman! Though we already talked about our pasts on the phone. Good advice though. I’m meeting her at two, and I have to say… I’m nevous. Once we sit down and start talking though, I should be ok. :slight_smile:

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Good luck ZZZ! Just be yourself.

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So, how did it go?

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She is SO awesome. :slight_smile:

I’m seeing her again tomorrow night for a movie. I’m really happy I met her. No matter what happens, I’m sure we will at least be friends… which is really pretty great! I do have a little crush on her, but we have to get to know each other more, (of course).

Thank you for asking about it Kittenblue!

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Yay! Glad it went well.

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Great news.

Now we need to get the women Dopers in here to help him “decode” dating signals so he doesn’t mess this up.

You know, subtle stuff like she strips down to nothing but red panties and red bra back at her place because “its kinda hot in here”

Help him out gals!