The only evidence you have that I put forth “minimal” effort is based off of the posts I made here. When I tried all this stuff I was much less jaded. Now I cannot say the same.
At this point is in reference to my current situation, not according to the progression of this thread.
I hear Cannabis oil is a great cure for blue balls. Just rub it all over your crotch, thrice daily. You’ll be beating all the women back with a stick!
Really, this topic is a waste. Whenever I wonder why I’m single, all I need to do is look in the mirror. Then the reason becomes quite clear.
The 90’s called. They want their tragically hopeless generation Y attitude back.
Nah, that doesn’t apply here. People got laid in the 90s.
Yeah, but not you.
No shit, I think that’s been made clear.
Dude, you gotta lighten up. Laugh at yourself a little. Realize you’re being completely self indulgent. Then hitch up your big boy pants, put on a clean shirt and put yourself back out there.
Well that’s impossible to do when you can’t get laid for shit. You see it happening to everyone else and it just shows how inferior you are.
When I was young I was awful at talking to women. I met a very unassuming guy who seemed to always have girls at his side. In great desperation (and at an embarrassing cost - my pride), I asked his secret. I expected some pseudobabble horseshit from him. Instead, he laid out a meaningful course of action that when put into play actually worked.
I had just about decided to pass it along until I read your latest post. I can see now it wouldn’t be worth my time typing it out. You aren’t really looking for help are you?
No, just ranting. The help never works.
I spent three years married to my ex where I wasn’t getting laid much more than you are now. Things change.
Yeah, people say they change, but they never do.
This attitude, IMO, sums up quite succinctly why you are not getting laid.
ETA: “I tried something once - it didn’t work then so why try again?”
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Have you tried heavier women? Less attractive women? Older women? There are tons of single women out there that aren’t looked at twice because they don’t fit the conventional standards of beauty but they will love you like mad because you saw to the real person underneath the shell.
The help has never worked. What am I supposed to do, lie about it?
I tried much more than once. I’ve tried to the point that I don’t have anymore desire to do so.
And now you know why this happens as this thread, like most of the others, has devolved into the OP getting some good advice and completely ignoring it and continuing with the ‘woe is me’ attitude. After the OP ignores all advice and sympathy; scorn, derision and contempt is pretty much all that is left.
Poor Jesse