I have a close friend whom I love very much. During most of her youth she was sexually abused by her father. As was her sister, but only for a short time.
It finally stopped when she got old enough to tell her mom. although it did take a while for mom to believe, and even then the reaction wasn’t what my friend (M) had hoped for.
Dad and sis got therapy. M got some, but couldn’t stand the process.
Mom refused to divorce dad (a marriage is forever, after all) and continued, off and on, to try to force M into getting therapy.
About 2 years ago, during a family arguement, M finally said “Why should I be nice to you? All you’ve ever done is hurt me!”
to which mom responded “Well, that was a long time ago, and it was partly your fault too you know…”
Ok. back now. had to take a break.
Well, last week M came and visited me and the family, loves it here, and will be moving down to Cali as soon as she can break her lease. She’s back now, and spoke to mom today. She would like to see mom and sis once more before going 1200 miles away, but the last few times that has happened, mom and sis gang up on M and try to get her to apologize for what she said at that long ago dinner, and for being such a mean person the last few years. M doesn’t want to do that (I agree) and feels if anything else he should apologize to her.
Mom started to yell at her, about how ungrateful and hurtful she is, and how she (the mom) is just trying to put the family back together again. M gets upset, and says she has no interest in being back together with dad. Mom asks why. M says “Well, he has been abusing me for most of my life.” to which mom replies “Oh, is it back to that again?”
I hate this woman. I am a parent now, and neither my wife nor I can understand the diseased sort of thinking that could lead to someone picking a molesting animal to their own children. She uses the guilt from the molestation as a weapon to use in the mental abuse of her own daugthers.
Given the chance I would kill them both. they are a disease and should be cleansed from the earth. I would like to burn them both alive. They should both die slowly, from Cancer or AIDS, or radiation poisoning.
I know that this isn’t much of a pit rant, but it’s hard to put how I feel about this into words. Neither one of them deserve to live, and I would gladly slit the throats of either of them.
Sorry this rant is so lame. I’m going to go catch some air real quick, as typing all this has gotten me a bit upset.