I just received the most hateful message of my life on Facebook and it got to me.

I’m too lazy to go look it up to see whether you’ve done this before, so I’ll just make this a note now instead of a warning, but Autolycus, don’t drag the real-world problems you have with other members onto the SDMB. For one, it’s kind of a weenie thing to do to start a thread about another member and not even mention his/her name; secondly, this type of imported drama almost always ends up as a trainwreck and is best resolved in meatspace. We also don’t want the SDMB turned into a battleground for stuff that’s happened off-board; yell at each other in LiveJournal if you wanna do that.