And I’m dying now because I want to call her and see her and I’m having to force myself to pace it all… Arrgh. Yes, I know this sounds stupid, but I’m just so worried about coming off as this overanxious smothering jerkoff idiot. Gotta - take - it - slow. Man, I hate this part, but I know it’s necessary. <whine>
But you see, she’s just awesome. She writes the coolest emails and composes prose when a simple yes or no is all that’s necessary. She’s smart. She’s pretty. She’s original. She’s herself. She has her own personality. She’s got awesome legs. She’s tall. She does her own thing. She went to school in Boston. In short, she’s not like all of the vapid little tehksusayheundeehm chicks that seem to populate every inch of this town.
[third person] Johnnyharvard is certainly intrigued, but patience is not one of Johnnyharvard’s strengths [/third person]
Not that I expect anyone to care, but this is MPSIMS, and I gotta share to just get it all out. Ahhhhhh - feel better now.
::cold shower::
Call her now!!! If you like her, tell her you like her. Why play games? Why begin a potential relationship acting differently than you really feel. If she can’t handle the fact that you like her, she’s probably not who you want anyway. This has never worked for me but I still believe. Good luck.
WOW! I was as you are many years ago!
I called her, wrote to her, told her friends of my love for her!
We will celebrate our 35th wedding annversery in September.
DO IT!
No, she’s certainly not ice-hearted. And I already have asked her out - we are going out on Friday - and I can’t wait for Friday to hurry up and get here. It’s not that I don’t know whether she likes me or not, because I just kind of feel it. She does. It’s one of those mysterious things about life (at least from a guy’s perspective) - that most of the time when you’re wondering if the feeling is mutual, it usually isn’t right away - or ever. But this is one of those rare (and glorious) instances where you just kind of feel it and don’t have to wonder because you already know the answer.
And I happened to see her last night, just ran into her at a local coffeehouse and we chatted and flirted and chatted some more and it was so great.
When a girl comes over to your table and sits down next to you and keeps whispering in your ear and grinning and then makes an effort to tell you goodbye when she leaves, that’s a good sign, right?
So it’s not that I’m nervous to call her or to talk to her, because I’m not - that’s precisely why I’m so fidgety right now. But everyone probably has seen the movie Swingers and a long long time ago, back in the days immediately after college, I was the guy calling on the phone 20 times in one day. So now I feel like I’ve learned my lesson and I need to just pace myself - and IT IS SO FREAKING HARD!!! Arrrggghh. Patience sucks. Patience sucks. Patience sucks. Gotta be patient. Gotta be patient. Gotta be patient.
::Great big sigh::
Thanks for the understanding guys… I was afraid after I made the first post that maybe I should just sit here in silence, but I just had to share with someone! Thanks for listening to me whine.
