Some backstory. I friend a lot of people on facebook. Over the last couple of years I started friending horror fans. And horror fans are usually Facebook friends with horror actors and actresses.
Some of them really do upkeep their own Facebook accounts, and I Mass add random people…
So to make a long story short… Over the last two years I have added a shitload of people, many of them producers and musicians and actors and directors and many others, and I don’t even know who they are or what they’ve done. Every so often I will make a status on Facebook and a person will reply and reveal themselves to be a celebrity…
One person did this about a year ago, somebody who starred in Friday the 13th part 5, although I didn’t know that at the time because I didn’t recognize her name or her face… But if you’ve ever seen Friday the 13th part 5, you’ll know the goth girl with the black hair who was doing the dance in her bedroom and got killed by jason, her name was Violet. And somehow the actress was a friend of mine on facebook. I learned about this later after her and I had a discussion about AI.
Since then we’ve become kind of close and she regularly replies to my stuff and we’ve even traded many messages, but it’s just surreal to me because I grew up watching Friday the 13th films and she was always my favorite character in that part, so it’s weird that I met her on Facebook and now she’s a semi friend.
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Okay, that’s all backstory, suffice to say I’m friends with a lot of Friday the 13th alumni, and many other people one guy named Vincent that I’m friends with was in clerks… And I was talking to a person who directed a movie a few days ago… And one of my friends named Sam was an extra in a couple of movies, including The Walking Dead.
Anyway, the other day I made a status talking about how I had some extra money and I didn’t know how to spend it.
Today this woman messages me and references it. She doesn’t ask for money but she sort of hints around that she could use help.
I did not recognize her name and I did not recognize her face but apparently I added her about a year ago. And her Facebook account is not new, it was made 7 years ago, so it’s not like she just newly made an account, I checked.
So we got to talking a little bit and she was hinting around that she had an actress background. She said she had been in many movies… And that did it. That got my curiosity up enough to where I googled her name.
I won’t say the name here, but suffice to say, this woman was in a ton of softcore movies.
TMI/NSFW alert.
When I was growing up, in my early twenties and 30s, I loved softcore. I still love softcore porn. I’m not ashamed to admit it. I still watch it from time to time. I’m asexual, meaning I’m not interested in sex at all, I don’t get any pleasure from sex, but one of the myths I think that spreads about asexuals… Is that we are non-sexual entirely. That is not true. I love the feeling of a good orgasm. I like that release. I just don’t get pleasure from having sex with anyone else, but using my own hand? That’s fine. That does the job. That’s all I ever need for the rest of my life and I will be happy.
So early on I started watching these movies and of course enjoying them in my own way, if you know what I mean. And I don’t know if you,… Yes, you, reading this right now, whoever you are… Are knowledgeable about softcore actresses, but I am.
It’s not really knowledge many people can relate to, I don’t usually talk about it, but let’s see… I know actresses like Beverly Lynne, Kim Dawson, Shauna O’Brien, Regina Russell, many others, the list goes on… Please note though, these are softcore actresses, not hardcore pornography actresses.
One of them, I was always a big fan of… Misty Mundane. And she is fairly well known in the softcore industry, at least back in the late 90s and early 2000s. If you watch softcore porn, you may know who Misty is, I mean a lot of people know who Ron Jeremy is even though they may not watch porn. They know the name anyway, so many of you might have heard of Misty before, I would say she was probably one of the more well-known actresses of softcore.
My Facebook friend is not Misty… But the woman who was messaging me today was pretty much in every Misty movie. Misty and her movies tended to use the same actresses over and over again, and this woman was one of them…
And yes, it’s really her. It’s not a faker, it’s not someone posing as her, I actually had her take a picture of herself holding up a card with my name and today’s date on it and she did it. It is really her. My mind was blown. Why the hell would this woman be messaging me? She could probably get any man she wants to help her, maybe she is doing it and she just wants to add me to the lineup. I don’t know..
But her and I have been talking a lot already today and she’s been telling me a little bit of her current situation and her history. I’m not going to reveal all that personal history or information that she told me although I will say she is fallen on Hard times apparently… Or so she says… I guess that industry didn’t pay well back in the day and she signed her rights away early on, so it’s not like she’s making money today, she’s 44.
But when I looked up her movies after I knew who she was, I realized I knew her. In fact I knew her well, I have seen many scenes with her in, some of them are my favorites, some are so memorable that I remember them even from years ago and have rewatched certain scenes with her in them even recently.
Put quite simply and blunt: This is a woman I have actually masturbated to in the past. How awkward is this? How cringy? And it’s really her too, I don’t see how she can think the picture and other things that she has on her facebook.
So I guess this topic is about…
Me asking for advice. How should I approach this? What should I do? I feel like she’s using people to get money because she probably does have a hard life currently, but I’m probably not the only one that she asks for money.
She seems nice and we’ve talked a lot, but it’s just so weird and surreal and strange, because I know this woman. I didn’t even recognize her name or her face but after I googled it and searched the movie she has been in… It blew my mind. She’s been in 27 movies… Most of them softcore. And these aren’t independent software movies no, these are the movies that were shown on skinemax back in the day… So if anyone in here reading this thread knows anything about those type of movies, yeah, you know what I’m talking about.
I don’t know what I’m going to do. I mean I have extra money and I don’t mind sharing it, … So even if it is a grift, nothing of value would really be lost, there is no downside.
It’s been interesting talking to her for the day so far. I would have never dreamed that I would be talking to a skinemax actress that I knew all this time from my pervy watchings.
That’s all.
What should I do?