I find this very disturbing. The fact he didn’t believe you must have been upsetting, but this is downright creepy.
I, too, though this thread was going to be about his infuriating stupidity in the Men vs. Women thread. I don’t think anyone’s mentioned this in that thread, but the fact he started the title with “Men vs. Women” is a pretty clear indicator of where he was coming from.
Wasn’t he, along with Shodan and a few others, one of the Bright Line Guys who insisted we all tell him precisely what constitutes misogyny on the SDMB or it doesn’t count? I see the same thing in the Men vs. Women thread: he insists that women watching movies where there’s any persistence on the male lead’s part is hypocrisy because after all, didn’t we say no means no? He ignores all other aspects of the relationship between the male and female leads: friendship, misunderstandings, etc. Whether that’s because he’s such an idiot, he only understands bright lines or because he thinks he’s playing an endless game of Gotcha makes no difference.
He’s a carbuncle.