fisha I can not stop giggling over your description of the chicken coop incident. I know that they would be lesser pitings but please relate both the police mistaken identity and the wandering in the wilds of SD.
As a wedding gift maybe the name of a good divorce lawyer to your current employee and the name of a good criminal lawyer to your former employee, with the understanding that you will chip in on payment for the first one who uses either of the lawyers.
Once again Eve nails it.
Not to question your right to fire anyone for any reason, but I hope Production Manager got a healthy talking to about being disruptive. She screwed someone working for her, that’s really not cool.
Now she’s lied to a bank regarding your company employing someone, committed fraud to get a loan, and I presume she is still employed.
Frankly, I’d double check whatever she’s been into, because she sure sounds like the type of person who’d figure a way to steal from your company to support her man.
Have you spoken with the bank?
It is when they bring the drama to work with them. And if they are in a position of trust and are letting their monumental bad judgment spill out all over the place? Sorry, not going to take the risk is a perfectly appropriate choice on the part offisha.
The bank is not open on Sunday.
*I fired an employee for being disruptive, destructive, for propositioning me, for screwing my production manager, for showing naked pictures of my production manager to other employees, and for being a lousy carpenter.
*
… and for the briefest of moments, you actually considered his offer. This instantly made you hate yourself, and hate him all the more.
Many women find the Dark Triad, when combined with good looks and superficial charm, nearly irresistable.
He really is like a weasel trying to get into a chicken coop. He sticks his nose in with you. Doesn’t work. He tries with her. Bingo!
You know, as someone with iffy self-esteem that hasn’t been in the workforce for too long, sometimes I wonder why my employers chose to hire me and keep me. Then I read shit like this, and feel much better about myself. 
What the hey, here are a few questions that come to mind:
[ol][li]Why didn’t you terminate the “pretty boy” carpenter the instant he propositiond you?[/li][li]Doesn’t your company have some kind of fraternization policy? As another poster said, a manager having sex with a person they manage is not cool.[/li][li]Why would anyone give the ahem happy couple a weasel for a wedding present? Hasn’t the bride already selected one all by herself?[/li][li]Curiosity is compelling me to add this one: Where are they registered?[/ol][/li]More questions later if I can think of any on point.
In other words, Douchebag™’s chickens came home to roost.
Pretty much every place I have ever worked has had some sort of fraternization policy. It generally wasn’t enforced unless it became a problem in the work place and then “fucking my [insert job title here]” became legitimate grounds for termination.
I work in a male dominated industry. If I was to eliminate everyone that was inappropriate at some time or other, I’d end up working completely by myself. Additionally, I am an adult- I can handle myself and get my point across rather well, especially if it’s shooting some guy down.
I was pissed when he discussed my ‘sexiness’ with my 13 year old son. (My son who is big, but well mannered, punched him in the chest-hard- in response. No child should have to defend his mother like that, let alone the ‘ick’ factor.) Both of these things happened 2-3 days before I found out about their affair. The only reason I mentioned it is not because I am a woman scorned (I wasn’t) but because he was screwing the manager AND propositioning me, AND betting other employees he could get waitresses numbers- I was trying to warn the manager about his character and how inappropriate he was.
Update to happy honeymoon-they forgot to budget gas money to get home, had to ask her mom. Did I mention they are mid 30’s?
Not sure if they are registered, but it appears that a 7-11 gift card would probably be appreciated, Monty.
No, I don’t hate him, Belowjob, and I don’t hate myself for rejecting him. Fuck, I’m skipping with joy this is not my personal problem.
Don’t think I am giving her a free pass on all of this, either; I’m not. It’s difficult to see someone you know completely change character, morals, and ethics for some guy. It just hammers the point home that you never really do know people.
It is especially difficult when the guy is such a loser. Hell, I have told her point blank, if you’re going to do something stupid and set your life on fire, at least do it for a guy that has something, anything going for him.
A guy who at least can pay for gas on your honeymoon.
If it had four doors, it would have been a sedan.
There was no need to factor gas into the honeymoon destination.
Check your driveway.
Without even laying down a blanket first? They must have had road rash everywhere.
Oh hell yeah. an entire police precinct is being tranferred because they got in each others pants.. That concept of private not effecting personal is something you believe when you’re under 30.. Over 30 you know that’s some bullshit.. lol
Ooh, I missed this one! Is it local? In the midst of all our other current police force closing/reassignment drama? Dish!
Maybe we’ve found out who left the condom in Rand Rover’s garage. Do these two even use condoms?
…ohgodPLEASEletthemusecondoms…
What causes otherwise normal mature people to do things like this? It’s not just one gender, we all know men having a mid-life crises who dive into crazy inappropriate relationships too.
But damn. This is like mid life crisis on fire.