Based on what?
You assume way too much.
You’re an IO, at best.
Did you at least get to fuck her in the ass?!
What’d it sound like?
Details! Concerned parties from the previous thread need to know.
You are WAY too obsessed with this girl who clearly just wants to be fuck buddies (if that) with you. Frankly, your behavior is incredibly creepy. Move on, dude.
A general principle of assuming people aren’t utter morons until they indicate that they are.
I reject your reality and substitute my own.
Perhaps we’ve gone back to the more wholesome times of Lucy and Desi in separate beds, but I’m trying to understand how you think of her as anything other than a roommate if she has her own bedroom.
I’ve got a different principle to tell you about. You won’t believe the time you’ll save!
Dude-
She’s fucking other people.
You don’t want her to fuck other people.
But she’s obviously going to keep fucking other people.
So…
a. Stop fucking her, find someone else who wants to fuck only you
or
b. Fuck her when she’ll let you and put up with the others when she won’t.
Choosing either option will make you feel bad. But I guarantee you that you’ll stop feeling bad about (a) long before you stop feeling bad about (b).
But, if you do decide to go with (b), quit your fucking whining. Because now you know it’s coming. Fool me once, shame on you, fool me twice, shame on me- and all that.
Oh, and IMHO, it doesn’t really matter what relationship you had versus what relationship you think you had. You, Smpati, don’t have the relationship you WANT, and (and I cannot stress this enough) you aren’t going to get the relationship you want. So stop trying to make a silk purse out of a sow’s ear and either suck it up or move on.
“You can’t fire me, I QUIT!”
It never started, dude. She was never your “SO.” She was just a roommate who sometimes let you fuck her. It sounds like you’ve had some difficulty handling that concept in the past and freaked out on her when she decided to proceed with the terms you had already both agreed to.
Let this be a lesson about “friends with benefits.” Maybe it can work sometimes but as often as not, one person ends up getting more emotionally attached than the other.
yea, agreeing w/DIo - in order for “It’s over” to be true, there had to be an “it” started. Don’t see that there was.
You totally stepped on my snark. See, my point was that smapti proved he had very little sense in the first thread on this subject, and now he’s slamdunked it and spiked the ball. In my opinion, of course.
Oh. fair enough then. I still maintain, though, that we’re talking about two completely different brands of stupid.
There’s a lot of cross pollination with stupid.
Hmm, good question. I think the stupid probably has a lot of carry-over - not interfacing with reality, wishful thinking, making bad decisions - all present in both situations.
For those of us playing along at home, what are the different brands of stupid? There’s more than one brand? Why am I thinking of different kinds of ketchup. . .so alike but with different labels?
I’ve got five simoleons here saying that if this kid could *get * any vagina du jour, he wouldn’t be settling for being Dee’s fallback penis. :dubious:
It’s tragic the shit you’ll put up with when you’re twenty-five and think you can’t get any pussy elsewhere.
He could always follow her up to Anchorage: north, to a lass-cur.
So, just to be perfectly clear:
Both you and Greg thought you were dating this girl, exclusively, for the last two years, and you sometimes hang out together. Are you and Greg blind or retarded? How is it possible to hang out in mixed company both thinking you have the same girlfriend for years?! The average character in a sitcom can’t even keep that kind of masquerade up for 10 minutes.
I still want to know about your butt sex.
