Yeah, but most people have weird hobbies. Sure, I’d be creeped out by some random person walking up to me in the street (or the comic book store, even) and talking about hot Enterprise man-love.
But I don’t think an interest, however prurient, in Star Trek is any worse than memorizing play rosters and stats for every baseball team in America (like one guy I know), or following the careers and personal lives of all the members of multiple progressive rock bands (like another guy I know), or an inordinate obsession with porn videos (like ANOTHER guy I know), or gaming, or Civil War recreation, or stamp collecting, or train set construction, or Royals-worship, or following celebrities…
What I’m saying is that everyone who isn’t insanely boring has interests and hobbies. And reading and writing homosexual erotica is just as enjoyable to the right kind of person as, I don’t know, as building a perfect replica of 1950s Jarrell, TX for a little train to run through.
Again, it’s totally your perogative to think that slash is creepy and gross. I for one think that people who go to bars, get massively intoxicated, and pick each other up are unhealthy and disturbing. And you’re perfectly within your rights to say so; I’m not arguing with that.
We’ve hashed out all the legal and moral issues with it. It doesn’t bother the original authors enough for them to address it very much, and it doesn’t bother the actors of the movies and shows involved, apparently at all if you listen to what their interviews say. IANAL, but I DO deal with copyright law very intimately every day (Ninja/Copyright Act of 1976? Is the Copyright Act also female?) at a publishing company. I know what it’s like to dance with the wacky and amusing vagaries of copyright law. I have a copy of it on my desk.
Copyright is as concrete as you make it. Fanficcers are on very shaky ground, legally, but precedent shows that however shaky their ground may be, the authors and publishers are, for the most part and for whatever reason, not willing to make an issue of it. So they may be breaking the law, but even in the nastiest cases I don’t think they’ve ever even been fined for it. It’s one of the vagaries of that law that is almost never prosecuted, just like my occasional habit of driving 5 mph over the speed limit.