First of all, I have to say, I am in complete agreement with Sleeps With Butterflies. She has been a voice of sanity here. I personally hate it when people threaten to beat up (or even worse, have their boyfriend beat up) someone who says something mean to the womenfolk. What the fuck are we, cave men? Even though he’s suspended (which is bullshit, btw), mshar won this thread lock, stock, and barrel because he got his target to froth at the mouth and get others to do the same. You handed him your chain and boy, did he pull it.
How is an insult from an anonymous stranger on a message board in any way equivalent to random violence? It’s words, on a screen. They cannot possibly hurt you in any way unless you let them. That’s why threats of violence seem so ridiculous. No doubt if this were real life, and the person were in front of you, and there was menacing physical behavior or actually something to fear, it would be different, and you might feel the need for such posturing. In this situation? There’s absolutely no reason to talk about teeth on the floor. It’s idiotic because it’s just MORE words on the screen. You aren’t going to kick anyone’s ass. So why make the threat? What is the point of it? Does it make you feel better? Better than just turning off the computer and going outside to get some fresh air would?
He does have the right to be obnoxious without bodily harm. As much as you might hate it, you don’t have the right to knock his teeth out for calling you ugly. Also, it makes you look insecure, like you’re actually worried that you’re ugly, or about what he thinks. Laughing it off and walking away seems like a much better and more apropos response, unless his comments to you are accompanied by a material threat, which they manifestly are not here.
Wow. Hyperbolic and hysterical much? Your analogy fails because mshar didn’t beat the holy fuck out of anyone. He said some mean, mean things on the internet. Not a comparable situation, and your characterization of Sleeps With Butterflies’ stance here is a straw man of the highest order, and kind of embarrassing to read, really.
I guess taking the high road is totally out the question, eh?
Sauce for the goose is sauce for the gander. Obviously you and AT are in the Pit but couldn’t handle mshar’s invective and had to go threaten violence. Maybe the Pit isn’t right for you either.