[QUOTE=The New and Improved Superman]
Although it was uncomfortable, I saw him as being more desperately needy than threatening. To be perfectly honest, I felt a little sorry for the schmuck.
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That description fits perfectly the guy who approached me once in the Ramblas in Barcelona, offering me handfuls of money for I-didn’t-have-time-to-hear-what-before-Dad-saw-I’d-been-left-behind-and-fell-on-him-like-a-balding-blonde-thin-guy-out-of-Hell.
I was 9.
Yikes, Superman, having a stalker, a violent one in particular is like my worst nightmare. The above posters have been very right; protect yourself and please keep us updated so we know you’re safe!
[QUOTE=The New and Improved Superman]
And just for the record, I’m a guy myself. I don’t know if that makes a difference. I noticed a couple of posts referred to me as ‘she’. Not that I’m offended, but I felt I should mention it. I know part of me would like to think that I shouldn’t worry about it, or should be tough enough to take care of this by myself. Still, I have to admit, I was more than a little disturbed when I saw him outside my office.
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That fact makes absolutely no difference. The law forbids discrimination based on gender identity and/or sexual orientation. If you are being stalked, there is everything wrong with that.
[QUOTE=Annie-Xmas]
She said he told him “as nice as she could.” She shouldn’t be nice. He’ll interpret that as interest, and maybe she’ll change her mind. I’m advising her to tell him flat out NO.
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Sorry I thought you were a female. My advice still stands.