I'm bummed...

A very good friend of mine is going thru a very difficult time right now. I know, she’s just someone I met on these boards and have shared a bunch of e-mails with… but we really have become very good friends. Anyways, she’s going thru a world of shit right now, and it has caused her to go across country to her home. So she doesn’t even have e-mail access (except once all week…) so I can’t even talk to her or be supportive. sigh
Another woman, who I’d kinda like to be more than friends with, I haven’t heard from in almost two weeks. She seems to like me some, and I don’t think I pissed her off… but nothing. For two weeks…
I don’t even know the point of this post. It’s too LITTLE info for anyone to help me. I guess I’m just venting. I don’t mean this to be a pity party, I guess I just need a hug… :frowning:

Is there anything I can do for you?

You could always drown your sorrows in the virtual hot tub.

Probably… but that’s not what I meant. :slight_smile: Thanks for the hug tho.
j_sum1, we have our own hot tub over in OMFG… thanks for the offer tho.

I feel for you [b[if6was9**.

6, bro, I’m sorry. I’ve been in a similar place, and I offer you as many good wishes as I am capable of. Not knowing the situation, (so this is a total WAG) I’d venture to say right now is probably a time of introspection for one or both of them. Being of similar persuasion myself, I know that some people withdraw from worldly contact in times of crisis so they can focus on dealing with the internal struggles. I seriously doubt it’s anything you’ve done.

Is today any better for you if6was9?
If you would like some one to talk to via email – you can email me, its in my profile. I’d be happy to chat.

if6, many hugs. You know my email, feel free to vent.

Thanks for the well wishes misstee and Salem! I’ve already vented to others, so I won’t drag you two into it. Thanks anyway! :slight_smile:

And I did get an e-mail from the first girl I talked about. It sounds like she’s handling things very well, so yes, I am feeling a little better this morning.

Let God be praised!

oh, sorry…
I thought I was in a Monty Python skit.
Carry on.
oh yeay! {{{{i6w9}}}} in a very manly (yet caring) way.

(((6))) Wish I could help you out, guy. You got my email.

Thanks, dear. And thanks NCB.

What part of the country is she in? We’re bound to have some dopers who could run some flowers over for you. :smiley:

Believe me I sympathize. I’m in kind of a similar state right now with one friend having bad times and one who doesnt want a serious relationship with me.

Hiya… hope things work themselves out with your ladyfriend and unfortunately your online friend has to just ride through the rough time. She will still need your support when she comes home too so you will be able to help her then. Sometimes I think the friends that are there for us after the dust settles to help us pick up the pieces are the most important ones of all.

Thanks, mom! That’s sweet.

More details in some other thread…

Sock Munkey, we haven’t talked aout a serious relationship, not even really a not serious relationship. She just disappeared. :confused: That’s what has me bummed.

feelin’ better?

I need an update if6was9, I need to know everything is better. I have been going through some crap of my own lately and I will feel better if you up date us with happy news.

OK… the first girl sounds ok and is very strong! The other is… haven’t heard a word… :frowning:

misstee, wait ten minutes and you’ve got mail…

Sometimes even waiting and not knowing can be…well…interesting.

Hey, if you were here, I’d let you sit on my front porch and drink beer and talk it out…