So the guy I have been engaged to, has, in the most classy way, been sending girls videos of him w**king off. I’ve left him, and we are over, but I’d love some people telling me they know what I’m going through.
I haven’t contributed much to the board, but I’ve been here a while, and I’ve noticed that you dopers stick together, and send hugs when needed. I’m relieved we are over, (this has been going on a while, but I’ve never had the proof). Suffice to say, I now have the proof on my mobile phone. It was lovely viewing!!!
I feel so utterly betrayed.
I’d much appreciate some advice from you so wise dopers, on how to deal with a not quite broken heart (he’s not going to get that from me! he for sure ain’t worth it!!!), and would just like to know someone out there is thinking of me.
I hope you are all well.
I can’t imagine what you’re going thru, but it sounds like you’re well rid of him. So go ahead and wallow a while in virtual hugs, take as long as you need to get it all out of your system, then get on with things, relieved that you found out in time. Accept my hugs and a platter of virtual chocolates. Or ice cream. Or whatever comfort food you prefer.
Oh yes. Good to know that before your relationship got more entangled and complicated. I know, it’s cold comfort, but you’ll feel better about it with time.
wow! so many hugs in such a short time!!!
Thanks guys!! it really means a lot!
**Hockey Monkey ** yeah, i kept the ring! going to get an evaluation on it in a local nice jewellers and see what I can get from it. Might pay for my driving lessons and driving test.
Again, thank you for my lovely hugs. I need to go to bed soon. I have a conference tomorrow with work (it;s 00.51 here just now), but I will check the thread with hope?
An Gadaí ** you made me LOL! I don’t think I really need another cyber wan*er, but if you like I’ll put him in touch with my ex. they’d probably get on!!! Ct!!
I didn’t nail his nads to a board, but I am going to make sure all our mutual friends know what happened!! I think that will do nicely!!
Am i being horrible?? I don’t think so? He flew me to New York to propose on my birthday, and was lying to me then!! His MUM told me I could do better, and she dotes on him! I figure something like this has happened before with his last fiancee. His Ma’ doesnt seem to have much nice to say about him in the relationship sense.
I know I am better knowing now, and I am SOOOOOO greatful for that, I have lots of people that care about me. I’m just so sad about the life that we have lost. I can’t believe how much I hate him.
An Gadaí i just re read your message!! Your brother is NOT a cyber wan*er!! I get that now! so sorry! Well, if he likes tattoos and a girl that likes a good night out then…
I second this idea, only I would include a link to his boss, everyone with whom he works, his da’, any other familyu members whose email address she may have and uhm, oh, I donno, the local police department?
I don’t give hugs often, but cyber hugs? Sure, consider yourself cyberhugged.
You know, not to excuse this guy’s behaviour, but some guys just don’t get it. I have a very good friend who just got married, and while I know what he is like and feel sorry for his wife when she finds out (and she will) that he does this kind of thing, well…it’s not my place to tell her. He is my friend, she is just some random chick that talked him into a wedding.
In his defense, he is just one of those hypersexual people. I don’t know that he would ever actually physically cheat on his wife, but cyber? Yeh, I know he has, it’s just one of those things.
Better you found out now than later, good riddance to bad rubbish. By the by, Miss Manners says tat ring is yours by rights, so don’t think twice about it. Learn a lesson here – if Mom doesn’t have a good word for her own son, run like the wind. Trust me here, K? K!
