Actually, that’s not true. I didn’t keep it real.
Last week I had abdominal surgery. While I was in recovery, one of the nurses kept referring to me as ‘girlfriend’. But she didn’t say it as ‘girlfriend’. It was more like girlfriend.
“How ya feelin’, girlfriend?”
“Wake up, girlfriend!”
“It’s time to go to the bathroom, girlfriend.”
She didn’t refer to the patient next to me as girlfriend. She called her Ms. WhateverHerLastNameWas. As I was too high on morphine, I couldn’t keep it real (thanks Dave) and call her on it.
Listen up, bitch. I’m not your fucking girlfriend. I don’t think you’re any hipper or cooler because you call me that. I don’t think you’re ‘down’ and, hence, will not reveal to you the next buzzword we ultracool and eternally hip black people plan on using, so there! Ms. Tech will do quite nicely, thankyouverymuch.
It can be argued that, maybe, she calls all her friends girlfriend and felt so comforted by my omnipresent air of hipness that she could let her hair down and be her true self. The case could also be made that Ms. WhateverHerLastNameWas was an older lady and therefore no longer qualified as a girlfriend. It cannot be argued, however, that my last name is so hard to pronounce that only girlfriend will do because my last name is a monosyllabic adjective that one learns when one is three years old.
JuanitaTech, fully admitting she’s getting old when she actually prefers to be referred to as Ms. Tech.