I'm pathetic, (or there's this girl at work...)

She’ll probably be really puzzled about how you figured which car was hers.

She either think you are some brillant amatuer dectective or a stalker.

The determining factors will be…

Do you make more or less money than her?

Are you taller than her?

Are you bald?

If the answeres are Yes, Yes and NO then you will probably get a date.

After reading this, I probably should not have put the note there, or at least stated how I knew which car was hers. My co-worker kept going on and on how I needed to do something, and the note was her idea.

The contents of the note were basically:
“At the risk of looking like a 3rd grade schoolboy, I am placing this note on your windshield. I tried to find you at lunch time, but didn’t see you. We chatted a bit over breakfast. I’d like to talk some more. If you would, too, call me at ________”

It might not have been ideal, but it shouldn’t make her think you’re a stalker (IMHO). I say well done for doing something to find out if she likes you.

Let us know what happens on monday.

Some women might find it creepy, other women might not.

At least you did something, and won’t be asking “what if?” for the rest of your life.

My opinion is that the note didn’t appear to be too creepy, lets her know you are interested, and puts the ball into her court.

Hey, what else could you have done?

Hmmm, my thoughts, as a guy, after reading the note are that she probably won’t be too creeped out, though it is a bit odd. But I wouldn’t count on a reply, unless she liked you too.

Glad it turns out that perhaps I’m not a creep. (I was really starting to think that I did the wrong thing) She hasn’t called, and I’ll just put this episode to rest.

thanks gang, and I’ll keep you posted on my further misadventures

Well if she is the type to get creeped out by that kind of note then you probably don’t want to date her.

Now, try again.

Sorry, but that’s a little creepy.

I had a similar experience once when a guy in my building left a note in my mailbox. He introduced himself, said he had seen me around (we had said hellos to one another) and was interested in getting to know me better. I was surprised but not creeped out. At the very least, it was a compliment, and we did indeed become friends. I think had I never spoken a word to him nor seen him before, it would be creepy. But because we had met and talked briefly beforehand, I took it as a pleasant surprise.

If you’re never going to see her again (meaning she isn’t working where you do) then there’s no harm done. No awkwardness having to see her regularly knowing she didn’t respond. And if she does respond, well, yeay for you! :slight_smile:

I agree, it sort of borders on stalker-ish. Just my two cents.
Then again, what you wrote doesn’t sound too bad. Let us know if she calls.

Googled her? That sounds so dirty! :wink:

D’OH!!!:smack:

-Astroboy of the 8 fingers

Rubes, I personally think that this was a good idea. What else could you have done really?

There is no worse a feeling that to realize that you could have done something, but for whatever reason did not.

Life is too short to not take a risk at happiness. If I hadn’t taken a big risk, I wouldn’t have met my wonderful wife six years ago.

The note was polite and didn’t sound creepy to me. If she calls, great. If not, take the next opportunity that comes your way. Carpe Diem! (sorry…don’t know how to make the accent marks)