You’re right. Sorry.
Nope, not whipped. Making compromises is part of a healthy relationship. It’s only really being whipped if you’re feeling sulky or resentful about the decision and then making it anyway.
For me, I’ve stopped dating a couple of different guys because they were occasional users. I can’t be around it or people who are around it.
I don’t think you are whipped. I am interested to know whether she knew that you smoked ocassionally when you all first started dating? Did she mention anything back then?
I don’t think it makes you whipped and most people eventually give up pot anyway.
Think of it this way, you’ll save some money.
You will no longer be violating a silly law.
It is easy to quit.
Most people really can quit and then take a few tokes a few years later with no ill effects accept you get high quicker. (Not that I would know such a thing) 