My wife usually gets this. She’s white. I’m not. She hasn’t had anyone say the “n” word, but she did have a coworker explain how all minorities are lazy and on the government teat.
Another coworker went into great detail how Obama is literally Hitler.
The Hitler guy stopped talking to her once she found out her husband (me) was Black. Minorities are lazy guy tried to back peddle once she informed him that her minority husband (me) was on a full ride scholarship for academics at the university.
Still lazy! White people don’t RIDE. They WALK.
See? There you go, sucking up all the government benefits. 
Heh.
Honestly I think white people spend far more time thinking of Al Sharpton than black people do.
I sincerely hope you are joking. It’s not respect to not criticize people you love. It’s condescension.
Can we pleeezzze retire the word “butthurt”? While it is a useful signal that an asshole is talking, I am pretty tired of it.
Words are not just words, and calling someone a derogatory name a dick move. Please stop defending racism in this way.