I’m really really running out of patience for all the crap I have to go through. It’s all really really stupid stuff and it is driving me to exhaustion.
I guess some of it is big stuff. Manic-depression. A few hopeless romanitic obsessions. The loss of twelve thousand dollars (the only big chunk of money I ever expect to have in my life) last weekend. A budding and unfocused self-destructive urge (don’t worry- no suicide) But really, I’m so used to dealing with all that big stuff that it barely bothers me that I’ve spent the last year so damn sad that I’ve nearly completely broken ties with reality. I can’t even remember last summer. I just walked around town crying a lot. I fall asleep crying. I wake up crying. I’m so fucking sad that it feels like it’s all I’ve ever known. I’m way past being upset about that.
What bothers me is a lot simpler. What bothers me is that the bus only comes once an hour. I remember the halcyon days when I lived on three bus routes and could get anywhere I wanted whenever I felt like it. But now I am stuck to one bus that always seems to come just on time to get me where I need to be fifty minutes early or ten minutes late. My whole life is a slave to that damn bus. Everything I want to do takes at least an hour and a half longer than it would if I had a car.Oh, God forbid someone give me a ride! God forbid my boyfriend take fifteen minutes out of his day to save what is sometimes an hour and twenty minute trip. No, he was raised to be self reliant. He was raised to believe that you ought to wave goodbye to your girlfriend as she leaves for school an hour before you leave from your work even though you could easily take five minutes to drop her off on the way to work. His answer? Get a car.
Get a car. Ha. The cost of car payents on the cheapest car possible, insurance, registration and gas add up to well over my entire living expenses for the month. I am so fucking poor. I get enough financial aid to cover my rent, and my mom used to send me money for food. But for some reason she just stopped. But I havn’t stopped needing to eat. I have lost forty fucking pounds in five months. I can’t afford anything. I’m living off of a costco box of microwave popcorn I got for christmas and a big bag of dried lentils I bought in more prosperous times. I break down pretty often and go out to eat, but at this point everything I spend is coming out of next month’s rent money and I have no justification for buying anything. Ever. I’ll spend all afternoon debateing on if it is justified to buy a cup of coffee for fifty cents. Don’t even ask me what I’m going to do in a couple of month when I graduate with a worthless degree in the least affordable town in America during the worst job market in decades. They are going to stop sending me financial aid checks, and I’m gonna have a big zero in my bank account and a big six hundred dollar rent check due and there is going to be nothing I can do.
So it’s the bus for me. Tommrow I have to go up to school in the morning for a lighting workshop (I’m a film major). I can’t not go. I’m a good student, and I am excellent at what I do. But for whatever reason that I’m not even going to speculate, I didn’t get into the senior project. Which means instead of spending the quarter making a film- and most likely having the most fun, productive and useful time of my life- I’m taking a class where your write about sixty pages of essay through the quarter. Oh yeah, I also get to take the lamest production class ever. With the very teacher that rejected me. The teacher that I managed to completly break down in front of (as in crying until I am short of breathe and naseous) when I met to ask why they rejected me. Unfortunely, I might actually get something out of this class with him, and damned if I’m gonna get less out of my education just because I’m a little upset…
So I’ve been doing a bit over the top, just to make him feel bad. I’m good. He knows that. And he’s gonna keep realizeing exactly who it was he rejected every damn moment of this class because I am going to show him that I’ll stay inspired and self-motivated even in the face of complete humiliation and overwhelming bitterness. In light of that, I showed up to an optional lecture tonight, where the lecturer kept mentioning a lighting workshop he is putting on tommorow. I asked him about the lighting workshop and he said it was totally cool if I went. So I went to talk about the logistics with my teacher, and he said that the workshop was only open to people in “classes where they do actual production (e.g. the one I was rejected from)” and there wouldn’t be room for me but I could show up anyway and hope someone left early. So of course I have to go. It might be a useful workshop, and if there isn’t room for me, at least my teacher will get to see a bright, motivated, extremely good student have to turn around and leave a chance to spend her Saturday morning learning and improving herself.
Which means I have to catch a bus an hour and twenty minture before the class starts. For what would be a fifteen minute car ride. And now it’s one thirty and between the time I started this rant and the time I’m ending it my boyfriend managed to get out of bed and go to sleep in the other room because I’ve been crying too loud. Wish me luck and think of me between the hours of eight forty and ten when I am stuck on bus just trying to make my way through life even though everything is so much harder than it needs to be.