So trump has malignant narcissism, which a subtype of narcissistic personality disorder.
Malignant narcissism means you have traits of narcissism, sociopathy, paranoia and sadism all at once. Erich Fromm once described it as ‘the quintessence of evil’
Narcissistic personality disorder is at root a mental health disorder where deep inside someone feels worthless, valueless, shameful, disgusting, pathetic, helpless, etc due to intense childhood trauma. Donald trumps father fred trump was a sociopath (according to his granddaughter) and donald’s older brother drank himself to death.
People with narcissistic personality disorder attempt to overcompensate for these deep seated feelings of worthlessness, shame, vulnerability and defensiveness by creating what is called the false self.
The false self’s job is to be the opposite of the traumatized authentic self. Powerful, admired, respected, in control, envied, invulnerable, brilliant, rich, successful, desired. The false self’s job is to prevent the person from feeling all the childhood trauma they experienced.
People like this can become obsessed with money, power, respect and earning approval from high value people (rich, famous, attractive people). They also live in a fantasy world full of delusion where everything that does not support the narrative of the false self is derided as false.
When someone does something that threatens the false self, all the unconscious feelings of shame and vulnerability from childhood come back. The narcissist suffers what is called narcissistic injury. This causes them to lash out in a rage and to become obsessed with revenge, to deny the event happened, to never let the issue go, etc.
The TACO comment caused narcissistic injury on multiple levels.
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Trump admires rich people, and the fact that rich people were making fun of him behind his back threatened his false self.
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Trump is seen as a coward and a chicken, which threatens his false self.
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Trump saw that people were smarter than him and invested based on the fact that he’s a chicken, showing he’s not smarter than everyone.
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The TACO acronym has mexican connotations, a group that Trump considers himself superior to racially and geographically.
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The question was asked of him by a woman, the gender he considers beneath him.
Basically Trump’s false self was attacked from multiple angles simultaneously. He is probably furiously plotting revenge as we speak. So how will this revenge play out. How will he rebuild his false self after such a massive narcissistic injury?
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Will he start seeking revenge against wall street for making fun of him? If he does, will this cause any friction with the plutocratic republican party?
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Will he come back next week and deny the conversation ever happened, say it was fake news and that the TACO acronym doesn’t exist? People with NPD deny reality if thats what it takes to maintain the false self, as Trump has proven over the years with his 30,000+ plus lies in just the first 4 years in office.
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Will he look for ways to get revenge on the reporter or the company she works for?
America is in an abusive relationship with a malignant narcissist and his 77 million enablers and golden children. And its fun watching the abuser suffer.