Rather than yell at you, I will just say that I feel for you. You’re in a sucky situation and that’s terrible. Take this irresponsible bitch to court and be done with her.
(and here is one reason I have not yet severed my marriage–I will be responsible for his “half” of the debt–the debt that is 90% HIS!). CALL your MIL and just say you’re out of your mind with rage and frustration and you’re sorry you took it out on her. Seriously–she sounds like an ally you desperately need.
Belrix, I was going to say this in your last thread about this, but now it’s even more applicable. I really feel sorry for your fiance, whether she agrees or not.
You’re giving so much emotional energy to your ex and that whole fiasco, the little you have left that goes to your fiance satisfies her? If so, I’m saddened for her. Someone that you call fiance deserves much more than that. I hope she finds it.
I already told you what I think you should do in your last thread about this financial fiasco. May I indulge in a little “I told you so” about the ex not wanting her child support reduced by the amount of the credit card payments?
Dude, either pay the debt yourself and go to small claims court to get some back, or take your ex back to court and follow the procedure that has apparently already been set up for these kinds of circumstances. And do what everyone’s saying here - call your MiL and apologize. This is just between you and your ex and the courts.
Belrix, I feel for you.
It seems like, even if you can’t remove your name from the current charges on the credit card, you ought to be able to remove yourself from liability for any future charges. It’s no good getting this card paid down if she’s still got it and can go run it up again. Then you’re back in this same situation.