Tuba,
What bugs me, not the exchange so much as the implication that The Reader would be held liable for percieved threats. As stated in another thread, here in ATMB, The Reader needs to make a legal statement that The Reader is not liable in any way when it comes to exchanges between members, real or not.
That was my main reason for starting The Pit thread I did.
I am here, as a member, of my own free will. I, personally, do not hold liable the CR for any exchanges I come across. What’s next, a SDMBer is physically attacked, literally, at a Dopefest and then it’s the fault of the SDMB even if the attacker wasn’t an SDMBer to begin with?
That’s my problem. I started the Pit thread, people can post their thoughts and feelings in the thread.
I am a member of AOL (God help me) and usually I take it upon myself to handle serious buttheads on my own terms, over six years in chat. You all know my cut throat comments at times, I am worse in chat because they spill out with little or no thought (much better lately though.) What I am getting at is, the CR needs to have a statement that the CR will do what it can to take away the fire but is not responsible for an individual’s comments on this board or in email. If they have further problems, say in email, the member who is experiencing the problem needs to contact their ISP and the ISP (if available) of the offending member.
Heck, I got rid of a jerk wad by blocking said jerk off from all the email accounts that have been listed here or other known places that the jerk head knew I was a member of. Not a peep out of him/her. < teeth bared >
Again, what it comes down to is the smallest idea that a message board is remotely responsible. Try that in an alt.news.group and it’s fallen on deaf ears. The only thing that’s different is that there are people here to help calm the waters when a hurricane happens, with that I see no need for those to get sue happy on anyone remotely involved in the administration of this or any board. This includes making a place like the SDMB remotely a part of it.
It’s a big world out there folks, we all know that. So live, love it or leave it. No one person on this board is responsible for your behavior, no one person is responsible for my behavior except me. Know that if you decide to tangle with issues, in any forum, you may have bitten off more than you can chew. This is something I, now, accept with every post I write.
So, if you’d like a word exchange or care to get nasty with what I have said, please take it to the Pit where I started the thread (listed above.) I dig this place and the moment people threaten it I get a little harsh.