I didn’t know if I could expect an answer, on personal problems, so I posted in two places… (if it’s any of your business, and are the the Internet police?)
It’s an honest post to try to understand integrity, with the variances in definitions, when examples might be easier to understand.
ooh, I’m so unkind! Here you are, innocently asking a question about the meaning of integrity, with no intention whatsoever to get your jabs in on your daughter, The Hypocrite. You are just a martyr to the cause.
Staying away from your mother if you don’t get along is not hypocrisy. Not even if you tell other people she has good qualities. Just because a person is not pure evil like the bastard child of Hitler and Pol Pot, doesn’t mean you have to have a relationship with them.
However it does seem like you like to throw out accusations and make other people take sides. It’s not very attractive behavior. The very behavior you show in this thread, could be the reason your daughter no longer feels the need to speak with you.