It also might be helpful to ask yourself, how would YOU feel if you came upon your SO typing furiously away to some cyberpal while you had been in another room alone.
I’m not sure if ‘adultery’ would be the correct word, but the intimacy level that you’re willing to give to a stranger might be saying something about your relationship.
“Um, according to who? Nothing more than a high brow troll, though occasionally the bi polar personality swung in a constructive direction on innocuous topics.” Omniscient
You’ve struck upon a subject which most clearly illustrates the differences between sex to husband vs. sex to wife.
Sex to the male is usually 80-95% visual and 5-20% of aural (sounds funny when you say it out loud ).
Sex to the female holds the opposite ratio. I think we read by listening to an inner voice. We ‘hear’ in our heads what is being printed on paper. Guys- Ever wonder why you get lots of cards and letters from her? She reads her words and feels incredibly romantic.
Chicks dig ear candy; Guys dig eye candy.
IMO, that’s why your sister heaved the guy- he was giving someone else what she felt SHE should be the sole recipient of; I guess a fair analogy would be if she were sending naked pics of herself to random people via email, say without words. That would piss most men off, because that birthmark on her ass is the holiest of holies. It’s territorial and possesive.
I live in the land of Penthouse and Jergens right now, regrettably, due to a not so recent addition to the family.
I gotta tell you, firedrills are fun until you start getting used to the 3-alarm fires.
After that, firedrills just plain suck; So you do what you can(within reason) with whatever currencies your relationship affords you. Therin lies the grist. I think my wife knows I’m not going anywhere. I know she’s not threatened by my recent(and hopefully short-lived) return to porn.
To sum up, he shoulda stuck to the porn sites. The penis is not particular; Unless this guy’s a Tommy Lee, he probably could have fixed his needs without treading on holy ground.
There was no such thing as Live Feeds when I was last hardup. Yeah, baby!
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