Is he hot?
Do you really want to date a guy who looks at other girls while he’s got a girlfriend? Because if you end up his girlfriend, he’s not going to stop looking at other girls. Except you’ll be the one getting cheated on.
“Cheaters gon’ cheat” is what’s called a tautology, and it’s basically an inviolable law of nature when applied to young douchebags.
Seriously doubt that OP will come back to the thread. But hey, who knows?
I don’t think that’s what shotgunning means.
Haha! Um, uh; that’s not the only thing that “shooting skeet” means. 
Why am I suddenly thinking of the heroin addiction episode of Muppet Babies?
kgif123, he’s flirting with you and has a girlfriend. He’s a jerk. I sympathize because I attract 'em too.
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This is really simple. Here’s a guy who’s behaving inappropriately at work (in every place I’ve ever worked at, any supervisor in the company would report him if they saw him.) He’s got a girlfriend, he admits he’s hitting on you, and he’s asking you to go “shotgunning” (whatever the hell that means.)
And you’re busy checking him out and enjoying the attention he’s giving you.
I think you should totally ask him out. In fact, skip the asking part, just follow him into the stock room and make out with him. After a couple of sessions, tell him you want to actually date him in public. Then, after a couple of weeks of him not talking to you, even refusing to make eye contact, check back in and let us know how everything is going.
I laughed. Are you kidding? Was there actually a heroin addiction episode?
Fuck him! Fuck his brains out!
Right…but what I was asking her if she likes to be the “Backup Quarterback” for Team Douchebag.
Yeah, that’s the funny thing about sexual harassment: it’s always inappropriate and unwelcome, except when it isn’t.
Shotgunning: Inhaling marijuana smoke and then blowing it into someone else’s mouth. In other words, getting high and making out.
Interestingly, one of my favorite college experiences was when we tried to shotgun hookah (tobacco) smoke around a circle of 7 people. Man-woman-me-woman-gaymale-gaymale-woman, of course. Failure’s never been so fun.
I think he’s looking for a backup Tight End.
I’m going to agree with the consensus. He’s a douche and he’s trying to get into your pants.
But it’s true. When we have our semi-annual trainings for “drugs in workplace bad, sexual harassment bad, diversity good” they always stress that the advances have to be unwelcomed to be considered harassment.
Sure. Same season as their parody of “Girl, Interrupted.”
Or a joint is place “backwards” (lit end in the mouth) and the person blows outwards with their lips close to the second persons lips. I’ve heard.
And it looks like he’s almost there.
Certainly looks that way. I’m not going to judge, maybe she would like him in her pants. She just needs to remember there may be consequences for her and others. if she’s okay with that, then do it like they do on the Discovery Channel.
Sounds more like he wants a wide receiver to me.
He’s at the 20 & trying hard to score. But will he go out of bounds before he runs out the game-clock?
Nonsense. It’s every man (and woman) for himself out there, and it’s not her job to respect his girlfriend. If she goes after him and can actually pry him away from an unhappy relationship, good for her. To the victor go the spoils and all that. Maybe it’s because he’s in the wrong relationship. If he weren’t, he’d be able to resist. In any case, it’s his problem, not hers.
Also nonsense. Yeah, yeah…anecdotes aren’t data. But my current marriage (a long, stable, and happy one) is the product of just the same scenario described in the OP. Though, admittedly, I was less creepy about things than that guy.
I was in a relationship when I met my now-wife at work. I started flirting with her and hanging around her more than I had to because I was unhappy with my then-girlfriend, but was too stupid/scared/lazy to end the relationship. The “new girl” provided the motivation I needed, I guess. She knew I was “taken” but she decided that was my problem, not hers. She reciprocated my attention, and after a short while I dumped my gf and started dating her. And in the 14 years since, I haven’t gone seeking the affections of any other woman.
Sometimes guys flirt outside their relationship because they’re scum. But sometimes they do it because they’re in the wrong relationship.