Is he into me?

In My Humble Opinion
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Naw, from your description he’s not into you yet, but if you take him in the stockroom and spread your legs a little, he can probably manage it.

From your description and mention of kissing, I assume the shotgunning you mention is the sharing marijuana smoke version. I’m wondering what job you have where smoking marijuana and lifting up his shirt are acceptable.

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Let’s see, he’s constantly coming over to you, talking to you, trying to touch you. He spends all his break time with you, and has said he likes hitting on you “and stuff”. He wants to shotgun with you, and has told you he’s not happy with his girlfriend (presumably because you learned he had a girlfriend, so he couldn’t claim otherwise). And you don’t know if he’s interested in you? Here’s a quarter, buy a clue.

On the just flirting with you for giggles, no I’d say he wants in your pants. On the “will he break up with his girlfriend”, there’s a chance he’s unhappy with his girlfriend and too big a douche to break up with her and ask you out directly, but it’s much more likely he’s fairly happy with his girlfriend, he just wants some side nooky. Much more likely. Is it something you should pursue? Do you like being the “other woman”? Are you interested in some short term sex, then getting ignored and dumped? Would you ever consider, I don’t know, asking him if he wants to go out with you and seeing what he says? Because if he says “I can’t see you in public because of my girlfriend,” or starts mentioning how he wants to break up with her but now is not a good time because of all the drama in her life or whatever, then he just wants you for some side nooky. But if he is really interested in you and really not happy with his girlfriend, then your asking could be the impetus to get him to take action.

Or not.

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Just for the record, when us guys are being this out-going and don’t choke when speaking to you, this means we merely view you as prey and want to add your name to our kill list (women we’ve knocked up). If a guy has problems looking directly at you when talking or can only make eye contact for just a second, then either (a) just a bit shy, or (b) he’s super into you and thinks you might be “the one” (which is silly 'cause anyone can grow to love anyone, there is no such thing as love at first sight - that’s often mistaken for very strong attraction at first sight, but whatever floats your boat and makes you feel warm and fuzzy :))

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I didn’t know most men went around trying to get women pregnant?

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Speak for yourself.

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OP, he gave you full disclosure that he has a girlfriend, and regardless of his so-called “unhappiness” (because all you know is what HE tells you) any romantic attention should be seen as an invitation to be his sidepiece. There’s no registry for that at Target . . .

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It’s not the trying part that is in question, it’s the pregnant part.

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Then neither is somebody who hasn’t cheated in the past, because they might start right now! Or tomorrow! They just haven’t cheated yet.

You have to trust your gut sometimes. Go with your personal knowledge of the person rather than a buncha people on a message board that have never met the guy.

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Wow, it’s amazing how some people live their whole life in Junior High… :frowning: