Cliquish? God yes. Terribly so. The comments made by posters above are very true. Some of us show conformation for fun - some are just totally DRIVEN to win and will really backstab other competitors to make themselves feel better, I swear.
You more than likely went to an AKC show, right? AKC shows have a LOT of professional handlers - those are people that breeders or really competitive people hand their dogs over to for showing. Those people are inapproachable, trust me. They’re there to win, because they make more money as the dog places in competition. This is particularily true of toy breeds, like the papillon.
All the pros I met in CKC and AKC shows are standoffish, won’t give you time of day, and sometimes will show really crappy showmanship too. MEH!
My advice? Find a UKC show. You can register your papillon with UKC (send in its AKC papers as proof of its lineage, etc.) and show with them. The admosphere is a lot more relaxed, and, best of all: ALL THE DOGS MUST BE HANDLED BY THEIR OWNERS OR IMMEDIATE FAMILY MEMBERS OF THE OWNER. This means: NO professionals.
Yes, owner-handled dogs can get their championships and do really well. I’ve put a number of CH’s on my dogs over the years, and on other people’s dogs (people who were friends and too scared of the ring!) Sometimes we’d go in and realise we were the only ones in there who weren’t professionals! Even the judges knew the pros by their first names, which made me wonder about the fairness of it all… until one day, my awkward puppy took a BOB over two professionally handled Specials (dogs who are already champions and competing for BOB and group placings)… and we went on to a Puppy Group 2.
So. It can be done
Find yourself a mentor - a breeder who does conformation BUT who also does other things with his/her dogs. I find breeders who focus totally on conformation are impossible to work with in or near the showring!
Also good is taking a conformation class. You’ll meet other people like you who are learning the ropes, and it’s nice to all hang out together at shows!
Good luck… showing can be a LOT of fun. I really would try UKC if I were you - it’s a looooot more fun.
With Aussies, we’re lucky, we have ASCA which has a loooong standing conformation program… and herding… and obedience… so it’s not rare that you’ll see a dog fresh off the sheep be put in the showring… ![:wink: :wink:](https://emoji.discourse-cdn.com/twitter/wink.png?v=10)
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