I’m glad it worked out for you to.
The thought I was going to add actually reflects what your girlfriend told you. Because most people (including myself at times) assume that the male sex drive is simple, straight forward, and centered on cunt, it’s not difficult to make the leap of thought that if Boyfriend is happy playing with toys and I’m available, then Boyfriend must not be happy playing with me.
It shouldn’t be too hard to disprove that thought pattern, and like I said, I’m glad you too have figured it out.
Happy 2nd!