The difference between personality characteristics and disorders is vague and highly subjective.
The leaving out details part doesnt sound like an ‘official’ personality disorder described in the DSM IV or other classification (not that I’m a dsm expert - if anyone is, please confirm or correct)
The getting irate part could be one. Apparently she feels threatened by your questions. I’m guessing you ask them out of honest curiosity and interest in what she has to say, but she seems to feel you are questioning here story or even intellect. She could use a little more confidence in herself.
Then again, this also sounds like a classic battle of the sexes: the women just wants to talk about whatever and just wants you to listen and mumble back to let her know you were liztening and agree with whatever point she’s making or action she took.
When you say ‘I met a woman …’, do you mean just a friend/coworker or ‘she could be the one’? If the latter, I’d seriously reconsider if you two will really be happy together in the long run…