Yeah I wouldn’t involve the staff of the place in her birthday at all… That’s something you would chance once you know her much better and you know she’d take it well. A lot of people don’t enjoy having that much attention in a public place.
Save that story for when he asks where he came from.
Nothing ventured, nothing gained. And that’s so boring. Do you want to be a boring, same-as-everyone-else dude?
Personally I love this idea…
It can be boxed in such a way that its not obvious its a cupcake, bring the candles and a lighter in your pocket.
Get a box with a lid that slides off the top or something, anything big enough that wont crush the cupcake.
Anyone think it’s creepy that a girl he just met didn’t already have plans for her birthday? Or would think it would put undue pressure on the OP? Seems like the OP doesn’t have a lot going on theoretically.
Good point. But I was kind of hoping to accomplish that with my personality alone. At anty rate, I like the cupcake idea, but I can’t find anywhere around here that sells them. There’s the sandwich shop where I met her, and they have muffins, donuts, turnovers, and danishes. No cupcakes, though.
They do have coffee cake, though.
For lunch? I almost never have plans on my own birthday at lunchtime. I usually save up my best plans for the nearest weekend.
Doesn’t every grocery store have a bakery?
I think that is just as good as anything - a muffin or a coffee cake. Since it’s from the place you met - there’s charm to it that a cupcake can’t buy.
See if they can put it in a box for you - but most of all - have fun!!
I was just there – the only thing they had was kind of lame looking banana bread.
I really think that the best gift I can give her is meeting a totally awesome guy on her birthday. I just have to be a totally awesome guy.
y’know - I know you said the place you are meeting is not really a dessert-type place. What about getting ice cream somewhere? That’s kind of fun and birthday-ish. And there’s something kind of charming and childlike about licking an ice cream cone on your birthday.
Well, and it’s a bit erotic - at least the way some of us do it.
Hey, that’s an awesome idea! And there’s a great place on the way back. If things are going well, and we’re not running too late, I’ll suggest it.
Perfect!
yay! It’s shake’n’bake, and I helped!
It was bake, that’s for sure. Talk about a hot date.
The restaurant had no AC. I was sweating like a pig.
Well? How did it go??
Surely you don’t think we are going to let you off with this level of detail? Unless you are on your blackberry in the men’s room shooting us an update this simply will not suffice.
It was very nice, but there was no real connection. Too bad, because she’s about ten times cuter than I remembered.
well, we’ll always have pink fishnets, dear.
That we will.
Hey, she’d look really cute in those. Just her style.
Can’t win 'em all. Well, aren’t you glad you didn’t get her some creepy present now?