alright so i find myself in a tricky situation, friend of mine suggested enlisting help from sdmb, so here goes…
Just starting up a relationship with a girl in the past couple weeks. It’s not even officially a relationship at this point, just talked a whole lot and messed around once… things going well so naturally what do i come to find out? Her birthday is this weekend, she’s having a party, and i’ve gotta show up… not totally sure where things stand with us so this could be a little straining to say the least.
Anyway i could go on about the other uncomfortable circumstances surrounding this event, but the main thing i’m worried about is what to get her. I mean I’m not sure whatsoever if we’re even at a point where I should be getting her something… I can’t think of some witty little present, definitely wouldn’t be comfortable w/ a sexy boyfriend type gift, and wouldn’t know what kind of card to buy that would suit this stage of a relationship. I’m of course not trying to emphasize the “friend” angle at this point, but wouldn’t be down with a “to my girl” card either.
So in short, how bad might it be if i just didn’t get her anything? Any suggestions? Anybody has had any experience with this situation (either positive or negative would be helpful)?
heh… making my [sex]life-or-death decisions on sdmb… what have I come to
any insight would be much appreciated.
p.s. is this even the right forum for this? maybe mpsims but as this had a polling element to it thought it could go here