For me…
Because he was one of those “winning is the only thing” jerks that probably didn’t actually have friends, he just had acquaintances he could beat. The late Neil Bonnett told a story about how he and Dale were going to ride quads down to the lake fishing. So they naturally decided to race. Dale couldn’t just outdrive him, no, he had to run Neil right off the road. The fact that Neil thought this was a good story, for me, tells the kind of “friendship” they had.
Dale really was a talented driver, but he was a dirty driver that got away with crap no one else could. He’d run people into the wall and NASCAR would be all “I didn’t see nuttin’!” And he did that for his entire career.
NASCAR loved the whole “intimidator” shit, the “black and silver” bad boy colors. And he truly was the intimidator, because not only could he retaliate if you did the same thing to him he did to you, but NASCAR would fine you and not him.
He once punted Terry Labonte on the last stretch of the last lap and damaged his car so much it was undrivable, but Terry managed to slide across the finish line first. This wasn’t “rubbin’ is racin’”. this was “I’m gonna run you right into the wall and fuck the rules and fuck good sportsmanship”.
He may have got along with Jeffie, but his “feud” with Ernie Irvin was real.
The fact is, ol’ Ironhead is part of the reason NASCAR is the way it is today. All about “bad boys” and “in your face”, and “'tude”. And bumping people around and fights is just how it’s done, (Don’t come back and say “NASCAR was never a gentleman’s sport”. No, it wasn’t. But it kept the meathead shit behind the scenes. Go find an old race where Ned Jarrett and Benny Parsons are announcing, and DW was driving (and you couldn’t hear his idiot motor mouth) to compare to one now where it’s like you’re watching WWE. Ugh. “Boogity-boogity”, indeed.)
And at least Jeff had the…something…to make his trophy wife his first wife.
I really wanted Dale to get his comuppance for all his bad boy crap. Just not all at once, like he did.
JAQ: regular NASCAR watcher since I got ESPN in 1982, until the CoT crap and the changing of the points system.