This too, shall pass.
I’m 45 and while that sort of thing is rare, it happens.
Whaaaat? Are you saying you still want to be his servant? Please, just tell him NO.
Now, I have no idea what “not doing it for free” means, but you need to change that to “not doing it at all.” You need to get on with your life.
When we were together, he’d give me money every month for doing those chores.
I say this with compassion, but I think that you’d be happier if you just walked away altogether.
Clearly this person has no boundaries, and finds your love and labour useful, to the point where he will give you some rewards (money, affection, whatever).
Equally clearly, though, there’s some manipulation and abusive behaviour and a real lack of boundaries and the respect you so clearly deserve.
My suggestion, for all it’s worth, is to start finding social opportunities and income away from this person and everyone he knows, because I think ultimately your choices are (1) some version of this forever or (2) leaving this circle of friends / family.
It’s a tough choice, but can be done gradually, and the longer you put it off, the harder it is.
I’m 52, and I’ve had a lot more trouble with acne in my 40s and 50s than I ever did in my teens. Masks can add to that.
And also, conceal it most triumphantly! 
Fucking neighbor says this same shit over and over to his adorable little puppy. And it’s the same redundant commands he said ineffectually to his last three dogs.
Come here! Come here now! C’mere!
Doggie! Doggie! I’m talking to you! You come when I call you! Don’t you listen! What’s wrong with you! Come here! COME!!
Come heeeere! Come! Come! Here! Now!
Godammit!!!I SAID COME HERE!!!
Over and over again it nauseated me. Dog just stares at him while he yells at it with the door open.
None of them had a clue what he meant! Never changes his tone doesn’t whistle for her, barely praises her. He uses no leash, no treats, no positive reinforcement. The poor little girl rottie is gonna be goaded into a crazy assed out of control large dog just like his last three. I fucking hate him.
And he’s piss poor with feeding the hummingbirds. Just now he refills it without washing the feeder.
I want to move.
I had a miserable dream experience. This saturday, I repeatedly dreamed that my wonderful niece Sky had been killed in a car accident. Then, I woke up and remembered it was true.
Whatever combination of work stresses that caused my mail carrier to commit suicide over the weekend. He was a good guy who Iiked his route and had a baby on the way with his fiancé. Everyone in the neighborhood liked George. He was a good and friendly guy.
If it was his boss, who among other things allegedly didn’t allow him to take an easier route even though he was suffering a very painful wrist injury, then that person can go fuck themselves. I hope they get stung in the eyes by wasps.
Jeez @chela @DocCathode @Love_Rhombus my heart goes out to all y’all.
Thanks. My surviving niece seems to have beaten cancer. But, she is moving from Florida (where my Mom, sister and siste in law all live) to Minesota. This displeases me. It was convenient having them all in one spot for visits.
I’ve noticed a new trend in websites and their “let us sell your info PLEASE CONSENT TO ALL THE COOKIES” nagging.
Usually there’s a button of some sort where you click it and opt out.
I’ve noticed now, at least 3 different websites, where it says “you can opt out any time”, but there is NO BUTTON TO DO SO. Only the “Accept everything” button. ARGH.
They never said they would make it easy on you.
You have to go into the security/cookie settings on your browser and delete the cookies for that site so it has to ask you again.
Looking at some of my old posts in cringe and disgust. Might make a thread about it, cuz I’m sure y’all have examples of your own. 
All I can say is, I like your avatar, CorpusNeptune, so there’s that! 
Aww, I’m flattered
He called today. Needs laundry done. No, sorry I havent called for ten days. I told him we was done.
This is due to laws passed a few years ago in…EU I think. They’re only asking you to consent to what they were already doing before.