How are things in 1955? Did you find a date for the Enchantment Under the Sea dance?
Things were pretty much this way when I was 14, in 2003. Some of us were out losing our virginity in the back of older boys’ cars, but the vast majority of the eighth grade/freshman class had not progressed beyond kissing, if that.
The trick is to find a boy with a basement apartment. When you are still in school, it makes you cool, not a loser.
I hope you aren’t trusting self-reporting surveys about teen sexual activity where they ask kids if they’re getting’ any, because the only thing teenagers do more than jerk off is lie about how they’re getting the real thing.
Are 14-year olds having sex? Sure. Are most of them? Don’t believe it for a second.
I’m also do agree with that if she’s their earliest daughter? If not, they’ve been through it before and might be a bit more ‘meh’ about it in which situation you could probably tell them about it without it being a big cope. Especially if they’ve been relationship for a little while. So try to do something for them that could be better for both of them.