If the trust is there, and the relationship is strong, you can do anything. It all sounds kind of hot to me.
This is exactly how I feel. Trust is a key factor. There are plenty of things I am open to now that I wasn’t to in the past. I was also married to a prudish man for many years. My sex life was pretty bland. It took a while to finally be in a relationship with someone who’s open-minded and adventurous like me. What I find disappointing is that often being open to sexual “taboo-like” acts can be viewed as negatively. Women like to talk about their sex lives. I don’t share the things that turn me on with anyone. But I also don’t find the need to do so…well…except with you all, at times. :). OK…on that note, I’m off to work!
Leading up to an orgasm the idea is often very appealing, I know from experience that 10 seconds after my orgasm I find it a bit repulsive so I tend to avoid it most of the time.
Answering for my wife- it’s not her favorite thing, but she doesn’t mind it. We’ve done it but infrequently, more because I prefer to finish in her somewhere as opposed to on her.
I had a girlfriend who absolutely loved it. I had one who absolutely hated it. I had one who loved it on her tits only. And I don’t think the topic ever came up with any others.
Personally, I can never seem to finish from a BJ unless certain conditions are met (too long to explain here) and in those cases, I’m literally not in a position to control where it all goes.
That said, I’d rather not finish in my lover’s mouth or on her face, as I like to kiss a lot and the thought of kissing her when I could get that stuff in my mouth just grosses me out (which could possibly be a topic for another interesting poll).
But in every case so far, I’ve always preferred to finish while fully inserted. There have been times when I slipped out at the last second due to us both violently climaxing at the same time, but those times I never felt as satisfied afterward.