Ladies: Bare down there, or au natural? (TMI)

[Ruffian]

I’m too fair, black-haired, and fluffy to go au naturale for my tastes. Hubby doesn’t care, but I do. Feh. [TMI]I don’t like it when it goes from a cute little triangle to a much less sexy diamond.[/TMI]

So, I wax. Well…I pay someone to wax. I tried for a while and that little crease where leg meets crotch is just prime skin-ripping locale. Need a pro to keep the purple welts at bay.

[sjc]

Originally Posted by Diogenes the Cynic
I like 70’s bush…if anybody’s asking.

@vanilla

You read it here, people!
Diogenes is pro-Bush.

Note that Diogenes said he was pro 70s Bush, when he was more of a party animal, I hear.

[kung_fu_lola]

I shave or wax, and I have a landing strip. I would never go completely bare, since 1) it would be way too painful, because of the way God made me, and 2) beacuse then I would feel like a 12 year old, which is great bif you’re eating an ice cream sandwich, but icky when you’re trying to play “Spank Me Mistress”.

[CanvasShoes]

@Mississippienne

Me, I’m a “natural” kinda gal. Never caught onto the whole bikini wax craze, or styling the pubic hair into designs. Why would anyone want to look like a prepubescent twelve-year-old, or have a little dolphin or something trimmed out of the hair down there anyway? Doesn’t appeal to me, at least.

When I’m involved in a serious relationship, I’m completely bare between the thighs and a bit further back, and natural above (I’ve tried completely bare, but the area above the pubis bone is too sensitive and gets all irritated).

Why? Sex feels better, and oral sex feels better to some of us that way.

[Silentgoldfish]

@Diogenes the Cynic

Where do these guys get the balls to decide how they “prefer” their women to wear their pubic hair. What the hell business is it of theirs? I find that rather controlling, self-centered and offensive. After 14 years I would still never think it was my place to tell my wife what do do with her own body.

If she wants oral sex hell yeah it’s my business! Pubic hair in the teeth is a major pain in the ass.

And if you’re too scared to ask your wife of 14 years if she’d sculpt her pubes for you then whip-crack.

[nocturnal_tick]

@Silentgoldfish

And if you’re too scared to ask your wife of 14 years if she’d sculpt her pubes for you then whip-crack.

I think the correct terminology would be:

[Chandler]“Whoop-ah!”[/Chandler]

And anyway, Diogenes is right. It’s his wife’s decision as to how she likes it. If you love your woman then you put up with some hair. In fact that’s quite catchy.

***Love is…*putting up with her pubes! :eek:

[calm_kiwi]

It’s a whim thing. Sometimes an irresitable urge to shave happens, then you are stuck with that decision for a while (usually until winter starts). Then fluffy seems the way to go. When the season changes (helloooooooo summer! hurry up and get here pleeeeease) the urge for the razor may strike again.

Men never seem too worried about the hair they may be shedding though.

[Go_You_Big_Red_Fire_Engine]

I’d never ever shave down there. I don’t know why any girl would, you’d just cut yourself, it’d grow back super fast and worse than before!

That said… I wax myself. Into a cute little loveheart. I hit the pool kinda often, so I figure, while I’m doing my bikini line… Also, makes oral sex easier for the two of us.

I used to be really anti- doing anything down there. As far as I was concerned, fuck em if they don’t like it. It was my body. Things change.

[BytopianDream]

I prefer trimmed, but shaven not needed. I dislike having to stop oral sex and “WHOOOACCCKKKK!!!” to get the hair out. I HATE hair in the back of my throat. I’ll do the trimming, whatever. It’s just easier and makes concentrating on the Holy Valley of Wonders of Wonders much better.

[Broomstick]

The whole state-of-pubes-in-a-relationship thing…

You know, for some people this isn’t a big issue - shaved, trimmed, au naturel - all good. So if one partner expresses a preference or desire to experiement and the other is game for it then it’s no big deal and no huge surrender on anyone’s part. It’s just part of the on-going negotiations that any long-term relationship requires. In fact, yielding on such an issue to the desires of another can be seen as an act of love - you are doing this because you wish to please someone else. in my book, it’s OK as long as there is no coercion.

On the flip side - it does matter a great deal to other people. If, say, one half of a couple knows this is a big issue to the other half, then not asking for a change becomes the act of love and affection. It does not mean one party is “whipped”, it means that person understands and respects the boundaries of the other half of the couple.

In other words, people are different and context matters.

[calm_kiwi]

Well said Broomstick.

[BobLibDem]

It wouldn’t matter to me either way. Sort of like sesame seeds on the hamburger bun- looks a bit different, tastes the same.

[DougC]

• • • What is it with you people and your trashy mindless posts? Are you all on dope? You disgust me.
• Anyway, it might not have been directed at the guys, but as a guy, I say, , , -you want that lotus kissed, then mow that lawn. The first time I will kiss it anyway (pausing occasionally to choke on hairs in my throat) but immediately afterwards I specifically state the problem and the solution. I must be doing something right; no female yet has ever complained about this requirement of mine, and by the second visit to the valley of moaning wind things were in better shape. Shaved is nicest but I know it’s more bother, so it’s not necessary.
• As far as myself, I trim anyway now and then, as if I don’t it gets long and tangled and starts to get pulled in seriously-uncomfortable ways by clothing. I tried shaving once, got a couple cuts (OUCH) and then was fine for a few days… then the stubble came back. And then I decided, “never again…”. Which is the other reason I don’t insist on the girl being shaved. It was a pain and bother for me, so I don’t require it of anyone else.
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[Silentgoldfish]

@DougC

• • • What is it with you people and your trashy mindless posts? Are you all on dope? You disgust me.
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~—Hey–~-`–~ at least I -~—~—, know-.~—~-…— how to use–~__>—~~ punctuation—~~~~~.

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[DougC]

~—Hey–~-`–~ at least I -~—~—, know-.~—~-…— how to use–~__>—~~ punctuation—~~~~~.

• • • Oh, chill. I use the three dashes at the first line, because it’s the easiest way to indent. and I put the tilde at the end, as a closing key, to indicate that the post was finished and not inadvertently posted prematurely.
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• And anyway, my join date is earlier than yours. Therefore, I win!!!

 :dubious:  Actually, IIRC there's TWO people still around who joined earlier than me, but I don't remember who dey is....

[AngelicGemma]

Trimmed. Because I’m a 19 year old woman, not a 12 year old girl.

I know what my b/f would prefer, but it’s just not going to happen. My body, my decision.

[Already_in_Use]

I like it au naturel, and armpit hair is sexy too. As for leg hair, I could take it or leave it.

[Ruffian]

Actually, IIRC there’s TWO people still around who joined earlier than me, but I don’t remember who dey is…

:::raises hand:::

Ignore the “Dec” in my join date. I changed screennames then. I’m one of those “Why, back in the AOL board days…” folk, joining in the fall of 1997.

Dunno if that predates you or not. But I’ll keep my trashy mindless posts, thank you.

[Diogenes_the_Cynic]

@Silentgoldfish

And if you’re too scared to ask your wife of 14 years if she’d sculpt her pubes for you then whip-crack.

First of all, I find shaved pubes to be a turn off. I prefer women to look natural. I despise breast implants for the same reason. Also, I am not a pedophile so a little pubic hair does not cause me to lose my erection as apparently it does for a lot of guys.

The "pussywhipped’ meme is one of the most juvenile, ignorant and frankly inexperienced accusations that guys ever make about each other. What are you, a college freshman or something? I am not “afraid” to ask my wife anything, I just happen to see her as a whole, separate person rather than as an object or a possession.

[monica]

Trimmed. I have sensitive skin, so razors are bad.