I think that my bucket of opinions wanted threads is starting to get a bit full, but hey when you need the info you go to the source.
Well anyways , as the title suggests this is about communication. Me and a bud are out on Friday, and girl of my dreams shows up and since she and my bud know each other from since they were knee high to grasshoppers, his opinions are suspect.
Now this is the girl that prompted the thread on Christmas presents, but as I suspected, that may not be an issue until next christmas. Me and bud are standing side by side and she comes up to him, and begins talking about a wedding with another mutual friend of ours in the summer, while with the exception of watching me out of her periferal vision, says nothing to me , and ignores me.
Since this has happened previously , I tended to ignore it and wait her out, and sure enough after about ten minutes of probably letting the matter percolate, with one of her girlfriends, she then comes up as if nothing has happened and chats me up about this and that.
So , in my opinion a message has been sent, she has communicated something to me that I cant decipher. So this evening, I sent one back on Facebook. Message recieved, cannot decipher (I’m predicting five girls will comment on that, to make matters worse lol).
I could simply ask her wtf, but I get the impression that what may have miffed her was not exactly ilegal in the relationship department, against the law yes, but not ilegal. So she may not quite have the moral highground, if one of her spies caught me talking to another girl.
I’m single and she is ending or has ended a relationship with another guy, from what she was telling me , somethings were omitted from the conversation that would have included he who shall not be named( not voltomort).
So while I am not the heir apparent for her affections exactly , I think I have a good shot sometime after christmas and am just waiting until her script says okay.
So girls , with the assumption that sometime in your life ,you sent a message without actually saying anything. What did you do when the guy just did not get it. Im not refering to guys that want to date you and just wont take the hint, but someone that you have an emotional investment in.
An aside, was this message meant to be deciphered (retorical question only)