One thing that I notice sometimes:
When people disagree about something (substantial or in their social relationship), their conversation can get heated, emotional, aggressive etc.
So far, so good.
But: I sometimes notice women conversing in an aggressive tone of voice over something where they totally agree with each other (either there is no personal conflict involved or the other party to the conflict is absent). I have even sometimes agree a lady with me where all other cues said she genuinely agrees with me but the voice says she is about to take a baseball bat to me (i.e. a tone that says ‘I am angry’, directed to me). This is a bit disconcerting to be because with guys their hackles are only raised when they do have in fact a quarrel with their interlocutor (with a guy ‘talking to me, angry at someone else’ sounds totally different from ‘talking to me, angry at me’).
Can you ladies confirm/explain this phenomenon or is it perhaps confirmation bias on my part?