I’ve been told by two acquaintances during the course of amorous congress that there is “more rabbit than warren” and would I please refrain from employing the full action of my flesh fer chrissakes. Such requests coming during the act, I perceive them to more sincere in nature than if they had come after the fact in the form of, “Wow, it’s unusually large.” or somesuch. Now, I’m pretty familiar with my guy, and he doesn’t seem to me to be abnormally gargantuan–certainly I have no future as an actor. But I’m concerned and ignorant so:
Have you experienced instances where you were unable to accommodate a lover completely?
Painful? Unpleasantly so?
How common is this in your experience (like, do you talk about it with your mums and girlfriends the way you do about feminine hygeine products?)
Er…I’m unusual in that I never talk about my sex life to my girlfriends. Just don’t get why?
But I’ve only ever experienced it with one guy, so I don’t think it’s *that * common.
Cute euphemisms (truly), but here’s the thing, and it’s really simple - when your penis bangs into a woman’s cervis, it hurts. There’s nothing “fun” going on, as the real “action” is elsewhere (in the garde outside the warren, if you will).
A man doesn’t have to be particularly huge to accomplish this. And yes, it’s in any decent sex ed book.
OK, I guess this could be relevant. No. Doggie & missionary are not really my bag, baby. Not that I avoid them the way I do, say, sheep, but it is not often I find myself in these positions. I prefer to be on my back and give my woman all the control.
For just a second there I thought you meant that it only happens to you when you are fucking dogs.
I’m glad I was wrong.
FYI I had this problem with a guy who was not the largest I’d ever had. After doing some research, I treated myself for a yeast infection even though I had no other symptoms. The problem went away and now I have no trouble. Just a suggestion.
1) Have you experienced instances where you were unable to accommodate a lover completely? Yes and I’ve noticed anything over about 7.5 inches causes this problem. 2) Painful? Unpleasantly so? Horribly. So much I’ve yelped, screamed, etc. at the so called moment of impact. 3) How common is this in your experience (like, do you talk about it with your mums and girlfriends the way you do about feminine hygeine products?) Well, just last week we were discussing this at our “Women Who Love Huge Wangs” meeting. . . My friends and I have talked about it here or there, but it isn’t a daily topic or anything. At the same time, we don’t sit around talking about tampons either, so maybe we are just weird?
No. I have never been with someone whose penis was unusually long. I think it would definitely take someone of unusual length, since I am sort of, er, weird in that area. As a girlfriend once told me, upon conducting a few experiments, “Wow, your vagina is way longer than mine.” Thank you, I think.
See answer #1. It’s happened with big scary dildos, but never with a flesh and blood dick.
It seems to be fairly common among the women I’ve spoken to, but it’s not a usual topic of conversation. I hear much more about girth than length from them.
1) Have you experienced instances where you were unable to accommodate a lover completely?
No, but I have been with a couple of guys who were longer than average – one of whom also had a distinct curve when erect.
2) Painful? Unpleasantly so?
A little painful, yes. Unpleasant? Hmm, maybe a little, but not enough to make me ask him to go slower or not as deep.
3) How common is this in your experience (like, do you talk about it with your mums and girlfriends the way you do about feminine hygeine products?)
This seems to be two questions, really. 1) I haven’t found it to be that common of a problem; for the sake of establishing my “cred” I’ll divulge that I’ve been with 20+ different guys since I became sexually active sixteen years ago. Men come in a wonderful variety of widths, lengths, and curvatures, but I’ve yet to come across anyone who was “too much man” for me. Perhaps I simply haven’t been sleeping with the right men. (And no, it’s not that I have a giant box like that bridesmaid in The Godfather: I’ve been with guys who were a little smaller than average, too, and everything was just fine. :p)
I don’t talk about sex with my friends a lot, but it’s a hell of lot more often than we talk about feminine hygeine products!
You know, I’ve heard it said that going all the way in, as it were, is often uncomfortable and even painful for many women, but is it possible that many others find it a pleasureable experience?
In my limited sexual experiences, I have not been with many women, but at least a couple of them LOVED it when I went a) all the way in, b) went all the way in while thrusting hard and c) loved it more if a nd b were during doggie style, often reputed to be the position most likely to result in the complete usage of said warren
Although I have also been with one girl who seemed, I guess more typical, in that I had to be careful during doggie style. She was not a big fan of that position, and that’s probably the reason.
It has only ever happened to me once, and it HURT. We were doin’ it doggie style, and had to switch positions. I always thought it was odd that it only happened once, even though we dated for over a year.
I meant to note earlier that I’m including doggie style, on top, reverse cowgirl, etc. There’s never been one particular position I didn’t like (or couldn’t take) with a guy while being ok with all the others: if he was big enough to be uncomfortable one way, he was uncomfortable every way.
I’d think that most women find full penetration pleasurable, with the unusually-small-warrened being a minority, but that could just be my personal bias. I don’t believe that I’ve ever talked to another woman about it.
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Believe me, I’m not at all idle in this position. You know how it goes with gravity & flexibility–in 66% of my pardners (yeah, that means 2 of the 3) I’ve been able to locate & work a button at the very limits of my reach–a hidden treasure, if you will. They swear it’s not the cervix, but I can definitely feel a nub in there and well…I’ve had difficulty successfully arguing the merits of other positions thenceforth. This particular formation welcomes vigorous and firm contact and its entertainment is the only circumstance under which the rabbit is allowed complete entry to the warren. Sometimes it’s there, sometimes not. The quest is a bit of a gamble because when it’s not there things are brought, temporarily, to a “screeching” halt.
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