Hey there, Soapbox! It’s a new week. Are you ready to go to work on these issues? Great!
To start you off, please answer this: What two things are you going to do today to improve your situation?
We’re all rooting for you here. We’ll do what we can; it’s your path to walk!
(And if you’re taken aback by my question up there, it could be worse: Moi had to come up with three things she considered herself above average at. Her answers were most entertaining. 
You ought to try and make it to JC’s next regional Dope Fest! It all depends… which college are you at?)
Great! Watch MPSIMS for the next Philly Dope Fest, and come join us.
Meanwhile, my question still stands. Are you ready to play?
Soapbox Monkey - you sound terribly insecure. You are only 19… you will change dramatically over the years, so don’t think you’ll forever remain like you are now. Don’t waste your time pondering about having the right/wrong personality - this is the time to go out and develop your personality. Get into things you like and enjoy doing, and you will be surprised at how much you will grow and develop in the years to come. That will be much more attractive than wondering who will settle for you and feeling like a scrawny kid. The key is to not obsess over what girls think of you - I know many shy people who get plenty of dates.