In light of all the “Ladies, what are you attracted to in a man?” or “Men, what are you attracted to in ladies?” threads, I pose this question in true self depricating and self pitying fashion.
I ask you ladies, what is the bare minimum that you would settle for in terms of guys’ appearances.
I ask this because I am:
-19 years old
-5’ 11’’ but only 125 pounds
-I wear really baggy clothing to try and hide my embarrassing scrawnyness the best i can
-For some reason, even at 19, I’m unable to grow anymore than fuzz on my face, and this lack of facial hair doesn’t help at all, seeing as how I already look like I’m 13.
-I talk very little (but I am a good listener), and chances are, if you made eye contact with me I’d shy away and stare at the ground. And me working up the guts to initiate the conversation? No chance in hell. :
-As I said, I’m scrawny, so there is no muscle mass on my body. I avoid sports like the plague because of a deathly fear of embarrassment (I won’t even get into the reasons for why I suck at that) and I would never step foot in a weight room at a gym, what with my appearance.
So, what would you women think of me if you were my age? And I know I might get a lot of girls in here saying, “Oh, don’t say those things and don’t be so negative, different girls like different things and one will come along” kinda stuff. But I want serious, honest opinions here. Basically just tell me what your impression would be of me if you came across me in public or saw me at a party.
Oh, and of course feel free to make up a list of your “bare minimum requirements” to give me, and hopefully some other guys some hope.