In my case, I can laugh anytime. But I have a hellava time achieving orgasm. I can only get one from hand/oral and even that takes a loooong time. I’ve never had the urge to come during intercourse. I love sex like everybody else but I never even come close to climaxing, and I don’t even get to the point where I feel like I might. All my ex-boyfriends, bless their hearts, have tried. But it’s just my “wiring”, I guess.
I can get myself to do it, but even then it takes (I’m not kidding) about 1/2 an hour, minimum. And I know just where to touch and all that. Damn! I’m depressed now!
Sometimes life is so great you just gotta muss up your hair and quack like a duck!