*My * money is “my money” and not “our money”.
You only have to help maintain one person’s sanity (your own). In my last (and only) serious relationship, I was pretty much the only source of mental stability between the two of us… which was OK at times, but incredibly taxing at other times.
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For me: I won’t get left. I can be as compulsive as I wanna be and not take it out on anyone else.
